After watching "The Bachelor" last week I came across this brilliant tweet:
Guys like girls like Corinne, the ones who flaunt their bodies all over men to get them to notice their presence. Why? Maybe it’s because they see it as a sense of confidence and bubbly personality, all of which they want from a woman. Little do the guys know that is not the same confidence as knowing who you are, having your career set in place, and accepting your flaws, etc.
It sucks sometimes not being the Corinne. You watch it happen all the time. Guys flocking to the girls in barely any clothes, flirting and sexually throwing themselves on them. You end up in the back eating food at the party watching the disgusting acts. You can’t help but wonder how that is what a guy wants.
To be fair, guys are not that smart. They get caught up in the show. They crave sex. There is no denying that statement. Guys thrive off of anything sex related. When a girl parades herself in front of a guy, you know the look he’s giving. He acts kind of like he’s embarrassed and shy, puts his hand(s) on his face or maybe strokes his beard while slightly laughing. That’s because he likes the show and is captivated by her. You question yourself how a guy finds that attractive? It’s appalling that they go for Corinnes and overlook the others.
This is the problem with guys, they still like girls like Corinne even when they are shown someone who isn't self-absorbed, entitled, and thinks sex is the key to having a guy fall in love with them. My family is always asking why I haven't gotten back out there and tried to find a guy. This, this is why. I feel as if trying to date is pointless. No, I didn't just decide this randomly or off a hunch, this is from experience. I've tried to talk to guys before and just put myself out there, but nothing ever lasts because I am not a Corinne. He says, "Oh I'm not dating right now," or "Sorry this just isn't going to work out," and later that week you see him out with a Corinne. Typical. This is the problem with guys, seriously. It is the most stupid concept I have ever heard and the most stupid, honest truth I have ever come across.
Guys, get your sh*t together, you're better than that.
