As summer is approaching many high school students are already out for the year, and they have already chosen where they will be attending college in the fall if they choose to do so. For many of them this is an exciting time and a chance to continue on with their education and to get even more involved. For some it’s a chance to kind of re-invent themselves and walk in with a more developed sense of who they are as an individual, and for other's it’s so nerve wrecking that they couldn’t possibly bear the thought of moving away.
It’s scary to many to leave their lifelong friends behind, their home town, and everything they’re familiar with to move to a new place where they most likely don’t know anyone and have no idea what goes on in this new place they’ll call home. They will have to go through the process of making friends all over again, they’ll have to find activities and clubs to join that may interest them. Most of all, they'll learn to study in different ways and use the tools around them in order to help them excel in these higher education classes.
Going in to my senior year in the fall at Bridgewater State University, the best advice that I can offer incoming freshman is to get involved as much as possible, use all the tools around you to help you to succeed, and surround yourself with a group of friends that act as a support system and also have the same goals as you. Pay attention to the student announcements and attend at least one meeting for a club you may be interested in joining. Don’t be afraid to just walk right in and explore the new opportunity, and see what it’s all about. No matter which university or college you will be attending, there is bound to be something that you like. Whether it’s a club you were a part of in high school or a new one that you have an interest in joining, Being a part of a club is a great way to connect with others and make friends with people who have the same interests as you, and could potentially be majoring in the same field you are.
One of the most important things that I can tell you that I have learned over the years is to surround yourself with people who will bring a positive light to your life and will support to whenever and no matter what. Choose friends who want to excel and put in the time to succeed just like you do. Don't forget to have fun while you're at college though. Yes, the main purpose for your being there is to work hard and receive that degree, but those 4 years will fly by before you know it, and you don't want to have any regrets. If you want to go to the party, go to the party, if you want to check out that new club, go and check it out. Don't be afraid of the adventure that lies ahead of you. Before you know it, those 4 years will be up and you'll be walking across the stage ready to receive your diploma.
