To My Go-To Girl And Best Friend, Thank You For Everything

To My Go-To Girl And Best Friend, Thank You For Everything

Just in case you don't know how appreciative I am to have you in my life.


This may seem a little strange, since this has been published for the world to see, but just think — this just emphasizes the love I have for you.

I'm writing this to thank you. To thank you for being there for me, always. To thank you for giving my life sunshine and happiness. To thank you for listening to me. To thank you for simply asking how I am.

For loving my selfies, my stories, and my rants. For giving wholehearted advice, anytime I need it. For knowing what will bring back my smile. And, most importantly, for forgiving me whenever I act less than the best version of myself.

Through the years, our friendship has proven itself unbreakable. I won't lie, going to school in a different state than you is hard. Really hard. Of course, we text every single day, without fail, and see each other every month, but I still miss you. I can't stop by your dorm or grab lunch with you whenever I want. It's weird not being able to walk to classes together like we used to. However, us being apart makes our time spent together now even more worthwhile.

I am forever grateful that we have the strength to build each other up as we move into new parts of our lives, and that we support one another every step of the way. Whenever one of us accomplishes something, big or small, we're always each other's biggest fans. I am beyond proud of you for everything that you've worked towards and every goal you have reached during your college experience so far. I know the future holds amazing things for you, and I cannot wait to be with you through these new and exciting experiences.

Our friendship has matured with us. While we used to be the insecure, brace-faced, One Direction-obsessed middle schoolers, we have together grown into the beautiful, strong, independent, Harry Styles/Niall Horan loving adults that we are today…and I love that for us.

Without you, I wouldn't be the same person I am today. Without you, I wouldn't know my strengths, and I definitely wouldn't know how to find the courage to improve my weaknesses. You make me strive to be the best person I can possibly be, and make me proud of who I am.

I almost definitely do not tell you enough how much you truly mean to me, so now after reading this, I hope you know how much of my heart you hold.

To my best friend, my sister, and my go-to girl, thank you for being you… thank you for everything.

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

The best kind of long-distance relationship.

Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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To The Friends I Can Be Myself Around

An open letter to those whose friendships I value more than a pint of Graeter's ice cream.


There are those friends I love and care about deeply, but cannot be my true self around. Someone asked me before, "How can you call someone your friend if you can't be yourself around them?" I don't change myself to accommodate them or act in a manner unnatural to me — I just don't show them some sides of me. Growing up, some of my friends did not understand how I could ever want to write books or how I could love reading so much, so I learned at a young age to keep that side of me to myself. And yes, those are important parts of me, but my friends who did not understand it did accept it, and that was enough. Some thought it bizarre and humorous I love Celtic instrumental music or said some hurtful things about what I love that I realize now wasn't okay. But at the end of the day, there is love between us and common ground where I just remember to not mention some things.

Then there are those friends I can be my complete, unapologetic, authentic self with. The ones who support and encourage you to chase your dreams, even if they don't understand them. The ones who you can cry to about something silly, say whatever is on your mind without regretting it, and who thinks it's preposterous you refuse to fart in their presence because your other friends would give you crap for it (pun intended, and also true story). The ones you stay up late into the night talking about philosophy and crushes until your voices begin to rasp. The ones who are the closest to your heart.

I want to say thank you to these brilliant, caring, beautiful friends, new and old. Your love and support has helped me at all times, through the good and the bad and the boring. I only hope to be the same friend to you, to be open-minded, supportive, and enthusiastic. I believe it is important to cultivate a wide range of friends and support, but many of the friendships I mention earlier will most likely only be kept alive through memories; ours will last many lives to come. I look forward to growing old with you all and growing together.

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