If you're just looking for the party girl, the one who gets all done up in her skimpiest outfit and goes shot for shot with you in the middle of some crowded house party, think again. If you just want a girl who loves to drink for the sake of getting drunk and wants to be seen at every party, she's not the one for you.

If you're just looking for the girl who's going to play you for a fool, talk to you and spend time with you and make you love her for months then decide she's bored and leave you standing in her dust, keep looking. If you're looking for a casual fling, a waste of time, someone you'll forget about, she's not the one for you.

If you're just looking for the hottest girl, the one with the body that could stop traffic and the perfect hair and skin, who always looks her best and seems flawless, try again. If all you want is a trophy, someone you can show off to your friends like some kind of prize, she's not for you.

This girl isn't like that. She's not always the life of the party, she won't break your heart and leave you running back for more and she might not always be the most beautiful girl in the room. She probably won't immediately catch your attention or be the kind of girl that every guy who meets her falls in love with.

She's the girl you meet and think nothing of it. She's beautiful in a quieter way, the kind of pretty that sneaks up on you when you're not paying attention to it. She'll be the girl that's always there for you at the end of the day, the one you talk to about your problems and your hopes and dreams. You probably only see her as a friend, and she's okay with that. She'll be the girl that you call at 2 in the morning when you're drunk at the bars and need someone to rescue you. She'll be the girl who you go to for advice when the other girls you're chasing break your heart. This girl is the one you don't think twice about because she's just always been around.

If you're finally done running around and chasing after girls who will never be serious, give this girl a shot. She's probably nothing like the girls you've dated before, but she'll be loyal. She knows you inside and out, better than you know yourself and she will never let you down. She might not be trophy beautiful or the craziest girl in the room, but she's worth a hell of a lot more than girls that just waste your time. Trust me when I tell you that if you decide to try your luck at making it work with this girl, she'll be nothing like you thought she was, and she might even change your life.

She'll make you realize that you should never have to give up something you love for a girl. She'll always encourage you to work hard and chase your dreams. She'll never force you into anything or lie to you to get you to do something for her, and you'll realize that a real relationship is with someone who just wants the best for you. Because of her, you'll look at the things in your life differently than you did before. You won't feel insecure about petty things anymore, because you know you can trust her. There won't be chaos and drama and pain, but stability and happiness and you'll realize that maybe, just maybe, you've been doing it wrong this whole time.