Ever since I can remember I have been told, "Wait for him to make the first move." or, "Let him ask you out."

What is so wrong with the idea of a woman being the one to ask him out?!

Nothing, my friends. Nothing.

We're so used to this societal ideal that since men are "superior" woman should back down and let them put in the work. But, the last time I checked, a relationship, hook up, or any kind of intimate relationship is a two-way street – meaning, the girl can put in the work too.

Thanks to dating apps like Bumble, women finally have the power to make the first move, and I'm lovin' it. *Cue McDonald's jingle*

I've been told that I have such a strong personality, so I was excited to hear that there was a dating app created to make women feel more empowered and confident in making the first move.

I'll be honest. Making the first move is terrifying. There are always those ruminating thoughts and worries like, "Oh no. Did I come off too strong?", "Did he not message me first because he's not interested?" and the list goes on and on.

But don't think that men aren't on the other end thinking the exact same thing – THEY ARE.

Why do we put so much pressure on men to make the first move when women can do just the same, and maybe even better?

Some may say that a woman who makes the first move is "desperate" or "lonely", but as a woman who usually makes the first move, I can tell you that I'm doing just fine and am not desperate for a man. I just have enough confidence to put myself out there and go for what I want.

I know what I want. When I see that, I go for it.

I'm not going to lie, when a guy makes the first move with me, it makes me feel on top of the world. But when I make the first move, I feel even more empowered because I know I did this for myself.

Just last week, I was at a party and I saw this guy from across the room. Girl, I was hooked. This boy was beautiful. So, what did I do? I made it my mission to get him on Snapchat. I was the one that approached him and asked him for his Snapchat. And damn, did it feel good knowing that I put myself out there and it worked out.

Although I've dealt with a lot of rejection from making the first move, I've come to appreciate myself more for having the balls to do it in the first place. I know there are a lot of women out there who want to make the first move, but they're too afraid or nervous.

I'm here to tell you not to be. Don't be afraid to take that first step and show your bold side. We all have one. Now, it's time to put it to good use.

Next time you swipe right or see a guy at the bar that you're into, take a deep breath, walk your fine ass over there, and get his number. You can do it, girl.