Girls are mean. We all know it. I’m not the type of person to one side it either, guys are assholes but girls are just plain mean. Everyone gets in their fair share of fights and hates certain people and sometimes for no reason. But there is a major difference in a guys shade versus a girls shade. When a boy is in a fight he will most of the time tell the other person where to go and then walk away from it. Guys are usually over it in an hour to a day and then all of a sudden they are best friends again.
But when a girl gets in a fight, it’s the end of the world, it will last forever. Girls will pick out someone’s characteristics to make fun, belittle, and completely degrade that person. A boy just wants a person to know that he is mad, a girl wants that person to feel like crap for a very long time and question things about themselves. I’m here to say, girls, you need to chill.
We all say mean things to each other, even boys. But if you go and do a girl wrong they will make fun of things that you can’t change. Like your hair color, the size of your nose, the way your pants fit you, how you eat, your moms name, something you said to them a year ago. You end up questioning things that you never thought you’d be questioning. Is my nose really that big? Is my moms name really weird? Do I eat that differently from other people? They want you to feel pain and if a girl sets out to do it, then you are going to feel pain.
The thing that bothers me most, is that girls do this to other girls when they have done nothing wrong. A girl could be wearing the same shirt as another girl and all of a sudden they are a bitch. Another girl looks at the guy you like, done. A girl looks at them the wrong way, maybe not even on purpose, done. A girl is really pretty and it intimidates them, done.
We live in a world, where girls get dressed up nicely to be noticed by guys which is awesome and all but the people that are really going to notice it is other girls. And instead of routing for them, giving them support for looking amazing, girls just give other girls shade because they are intimidated by it. It never has, and probably never will make sense to me. Yes guys can be awful but they are doing it the right way. Most guys aren’t as judgmental and will be friends with someone just because they are wearing the same shirt. Guys don’t get mad when another guy looks at him as they pass by, they don’t judge what another guy is wearing and get pissed because that guy may look better than them.
Every girl needs to chill, and reevaluate. If girls would just stop being so mean, there would be so many more friendships, and the world would be a lot nicer. Instead of being salty, you should tell a girl she looks pretty, get excited when someone is wearing the same shirt, comfort another girl when a guy screws her over instead of laughing and judging her because you most likely will be in the same situation at some point. Stop fighting over guys, I promise it’s not worth it. If you have to compete with another girl, then your both choosing the wrong person. Everybody just needs to love everybody. Your world will be a much better place for you. Hating and being salty makes you look bad and puts way too much negativity in your life. Just be nice.
