If you are the one who needs to hold on to something right now - keep reading. Keep reading, because this communication platform carries the purpose of actually having an impact. To help someone. Me, you, her, him and anyone who reads it.
There is no need for it to be super dramatic and try to make this article into another inspiring and motivational texts that sometimes makes you feel even worse. You feel the motivational atmosphere saying : "Don't give up" and all kinds of it and you are thinking "am I supposed to feel better after reading this?"...No, this is not it. Nothing in the world can make you feel better unless you want it.
My point here would be saying that it is okay to be angry, to be upset, to broken to be in whatever condition you are in right now. You have to give yourself some time to swim in this unbreakable circle of negative thoughts and shivering lips. But don't expect other people to understand. You might tell your situation including all the details to someone who is close to you and still feel that it wasn't worth it. Because no matter how many details you are giving them they are not you, they won't feel like you do.
Also, learn to let go. People that you have in your life are meant to bring you happiness, to make you feel complete. If the only thing that they do is making you insecure and paranoid, making you control every word you say and every thing you do - this is not how it supposed to be. Every human being deserves to be loved for what he/she is. Every human being has his loved ones to help him/her standing out in the community, to help him/her keep living and keep up with any circumstances. Life is a constant Ferris wheel which brings you up and down every ten minutes. And if there should be someone to hold on to it should be someone who really wants to help you.
Make sure you know who you are, who you were and who you want to be. And don't let anyone destriy that image in your head.
“Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.”
― Steve Maraboli
