Love. It’s something that whether they want to admit it or not, everyone wants. Great things come along with it like the butterflies in your stomach when you see them, excitement from trying new things with each other, and the constant learning about one another.
College is an amazing place to meet possible significant other, especially when you’re on a big campus when so many potential people.
That being said, you’re at college for a reason and that’s to do well in your major and start a career when you graduate. I’m not saying that it’s not acceptable to have a significant other, but for me, it’s not at this moment.
Right now, I’m trying to get my GPA up major. I’m also trying to get involved with clubs and events related to my major to network with new people.
On top of that, I’m trying to sort out being able to study abroad. I also have friends that I love to spend my free time with while I can. As much as I would love someone to share my life with, I would either end up hurting my grades or him.
I’m choosing to focus on bettering myself and getting my grades where they need to be so I can be successful. This is important in the long run because in future I’ll need to support myself and possibly a family. I need a great career to be able to do the things I’ve always envisioned myself doing like traveling.
That’s not to say that if a great guy comes along, I’m going to turn him away. It’s just not my main priority at this point in time. I know that he’ll come into my life when he’s meant to. If that happens to be in college, great. If not, I’m not too bothered by it.
