Sometimes a friendship has to end. It is not always what you want but it turns out being for the best. Friends are supposed to be there for you and understand and care what is going on in your life. Sometimes they just do not care anymore. This can be due to other friends, school, family, and even boyfriends. The part that stings about the whole situation is that at one time they were the person you told everything to. They were your best friend and someone you could rely on. All of a sudden it just stops and at the time it is sad to think about or deal with, but then you think about it and it is truly for the best. Sometimes in life you will become friends with people that bring you down instead of bring you up in life. These kinds of people will come in go in your life and that is fine and you may be upset at the moment, but over time things will get better and that will change. Things change and people change and sometimes it ends up being a good thing in the long run. They were there for you at one point in time and we should be thankful for those days and not worry as much about it ending.

Ephesians 4:29-32 says, "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

So be thankful for your real friends who are going to bring out the best in you and make you a better person. Don’t waste your time on people who are not worth it. Don’t let people walk all over you. You are your own person and deserve to be treated well. The main point is not to hold it against them for not wanting to be friends anymore. Think about the good memories that you had with them and do not dwell on the bad ones. As long as you are being the bigger person it does not matter what happens. Just move on because it probably happened for a reason and is part of a bigger plan. One day they may decide that they want you in their life and you will be faced with two options: being friends again or ignoring them. If this happens, think about what will be best for you in the long run. Think about everything before you let them back into your life. Most of the time if you miss them they probably miss you. You just have to think about if they will help you be a better person or not.