I never believed in the whole “Distance makes the heart grow fonder” stuff, until now. I once believed that the saying was associated with long distance relationships, never with friendships. I never knew how lucky I was to have a friend like her in my life, until now. Lastly, I wasn’t aware how different my life would’ve been if she weren’t a huge part of it, until now.
From snap chatting on a daily basis to face timing all throughout the night, I can’t help but be thankful for my best friend. We were lucky enough to grow up together, attend the same middle and high school, go to the same church and even have similar interests. At one point, people thought we were sisters because how alike we used to look. We couldn’t even deny it!
Being best friends for so long, we didn’t realize that we barely even hung out with each other alone. It was always with a group where others were always there. We never got to talk alone as much as we’d liked. Going to different colleges changed all of that. We began to have a greater appreciation for our relationship.
Being only 10 days apart in age, we understand each other perfectly. Oddly enough, our lives have been so similar, from the same boy drama to the same career choice. Because we got to see each other every day at school, the true appreciation of our friendship ceased to exist. That’s where college comes in.
We both made new friends in college but never forgot our old friends. Never forgot each other. New experiences in college meant new stories to tell. New stories to tell meant more time talking to your best friend. More time talking made us closer together. If I were completely honest, I tried to find a replacement for my best friend so I could share my college experiences with someone actually present. However, in a matter of little, I realized that our memories and friendship is irreplaceable. How can I replace someone who knows me better than I do?
She’s been through it all with me. From emotional breakup all the way to graduation and even know I can always count on her. Each conversations leads to hours of happiness with her. Long distance will always let me have something to look forward to. It always makes our bond grow stronger because we long each other’s presence. We always get to sit back and reminisce and laugh about the old times.
My best friend does so much, but mostly she brings out a confident side in me that I didn’t even know existed. I don’t tell her enough, but I love her. She’s my better half. Who knew long distance could make this all possible?
No matter how horribly you handled your breakup or how crazy you were, your best friend isn’t suppose to judge you. And mine doesn’t. She shows me how strong of a person I am and how I’m able to overcome any obstacle. She makes you a better version of yourself.
I know i don't say this enough, but thank you & I love you.
