At some point in our lives, we’ll find ourselves strapped for cash, single and wishing for love, confused about our careers and/or generally unsure about our next move. Some people will look to horoscopes or palm readings as a “quick fix” and hope to catch a glimpse into the future. Others get hung up on every detail of their every move, so concerned that they could be making a tiny mistake.
The problem with this? We miss the beauty that lies directly in front of our faces.
To cite a worn out cliché, we really do need to stop and smell the roses. Things so simple like petting your dog’s velvety fur, savoring that first sip of coffee and enjoying the feeling of just-brushed teeth usually always make us feel good, but we tend to take those moments for granted because we can be too focused on the long-term big picture.
If you’re finding yourself in one of these situations now, here are some thoughts on ways to recognize and enjoy the good that is right in front of you.
If you are worried about your financial situation, stop and think about what you have already. Easier said than done, but I am willing to bet you have a house full of things that some other person would kill to have. Somehow, some way, you will manage to make rent. In the meantime, remaining worried likely will not help the situation. Doing something that does not cost anything, like digging out your polish and painting your nails or going outside and playing basketball, can help remind you that there is a wonderful life outside of your finances.
If you are worried you will be single forever, remember that trying to find love usually never works. Visit your parents or call your best friend and totally immerse yourself in those conversations at that moment. Hear every word they are saying and take a genuine interest. Laugh with them because it feels good. Surround yourself with great company and remember that loving yourself and your own life must always happen before you can settle into a good romantic relationship, anyway.
If you are worried you will never find the right job, think about what you are passionate about right now. Instead of spending time worrying about whether or not that hiring manager will email you back next week, go now and finish knitting that scarf you have been itching to complete. That may inspire you to knit more scarves, sell them on Etsy and make an income in a totally unexpected way.
Lastly, if you struggle to envision what your life will look like a week, a month, or a year from now, then stop. You are a uniquely special person with so many gifts right in front of you. These could be that big, new, cozy mattress you just bought or that little sister who is your very best friend. Think about everything you are blessed with at this very moment, and remember that your life is pretty darn awesome.
