Valentine's Day goes all the way back to the 5th century, a day that has been celebrated to show love and appreciation for our significant others. In addition, a day to love ourselves. Although as the years go by the meaning of Valentine's Day has disappeared.

Valentine's Day has become to be viewed as a day that boyfriends or girlfriends are expected to buy a ring, a giant teddy bear, clothing, or be taken out for an expensive dinner. It has become an obligation instead of an option. There is nothing wrong with taking your significant other out for dinner or buying him/her items but to sit there and expect it. Then to become upset because you did not get what you wanted.

Valentine's Day should not be about presents or spending money. It should be about quality time spent together and words spoken to show how much they appreciate you. You shouldn't have to buy someone's happiness. You shouldn't feel obligated to buy something. You should be able to cook, or buy a card and write a message; maybe even write a letter. Take the time to make simple tasks important meaningful tasks. Do something for him/her that they will not forget and can hold close to their heart. If you are long distance, call or FaceTime. Talk for hours about your relationship and what make you each happy. That should be more significant than a teddy bear, or an expensive dinner. Make them feel loved and appreciated this Valentine's Day. Do not make them feel bad for not buying you something or for not taking you out. It is the little things that means the most in the end.

Love them for who they are and for what they do for you. Be grateful for what you have and what you are given. To those who are going to be rocking the single life this Valentine's Day, you should be proud and love yourself. Go buy you some Taco Bell or Chick-fil-a. Eat all the chocolate your heart desires. You rock!