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How To Deal With A Date Function When You're In A LDR

For the sorority girl in a long distance relationship

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How To Deal With A Date Function When You're In A LDR
Hannah Shapiro

Date functions are a huge part of greek life; but for the girl in a long distance relationship, they aren't exactly something to look forward to. These social occasions are just a reminder of how far away you are from your significant other, whether they are an hour away or 8,000 miles away. While everyone is freaking out about who they're going to take or what they're going to wear, you're thinking about what Netflix movie you're going to watch because you can't afford a flight for your boyfriend or girlfriend to be there with you. You're thinking about what friend you could take to keep you from being alone at the event. You're thinking about how much long distance sucks and how much you're going to miss out on by staying home.

To the girl in a long distance relationship, it may seem like nothing positive could come out of date functions; but, you're wrong. You have options besides your significant other. Going with your sisters is a great way to create new bonds and make new members. You don't have to miss out. You can take a friend who isn't in your organization--it's a great way to catch up with old friends or show other people what your sisterhood is about. If you choose to not go to the date function, don't mope around your house in your pajamas eating a tub of ice cream. Instead, remember how lucky you are. You've got a best friend, a closest confidant, a trusted and faithful lover. You've already got what everyone else is searching for.

So go and have a great time by yourself or with your sisters! Make great memories! Or, stay home and give your significant other a call; FaceTime dates are the best kind of long distance date function! Regardless of what you choose, don't forget how lucky you are to love and be loved in return, no matter the distance.

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