Being an older sister is something that only older sisters understand. I have three younger siblings and they are simultaneously the most annoying humans I have ever known and three of the most important people in my life. There is nothing like being an older sister. It is being the second mom at times and a best friend at others, constantly being pestered and annoyed but also unconditionally loved no matter what, and a task that I did not choose but also one that I would never wish away.
As the oldest, you pick up on little things that each of your siblings likes and dislikes. Which are both used to your advantage. This means knowing how to push their buttons but also knowing that giving them that extra like on Instagram to get them to 100 will make their day, or when mom and dad are being "too strict," forming an alliance with them despite the fact that you were arguing 5 minutes earlier. Being the oldest also means freaking out when they get to do things way earlier than you ever did or tattling on them for copying everything you do.
However, being able to teach my sisters how to use makeup, tame the crazy mane in the morning, and dress like a normal human being is an experience that I wish everyone could have. Comforting my little brother when he is afraid to tell my parents something or talking to him about girls when he's too embarrassed to ask your dad is both heartbreaking and flattering at the same time, knowing he resorts to you when he needs help. Being an older sister is learning to be their biggest supporters while also being their toughest critic (sometimes too often). Though they don't realize, you only want them to reach their highest potential and avoid the mistakes you made only a few short years earlier.
Yes, it is annoying when you go to get your favorite shirt and it is missing, along with 9 other articles of your clothing, but being an older sister is one of the greatest blessings in my life. It is not easy in the slightest, but it is a job that I would graciously accept any day.
To the little sisters/brothers who are reading this, know that even if you and your big sister don't always get along, that she will love and support you always. She has known you your whole life and will continue to be a part of it whether you like it or not. She is the one that will be there ready to throw punches when someone hurts you, watch the same funny cat video with you 300 times, be there for you when the whole world seems to be falling apart, and love you endlessly as you are (with a little bit of constructive criticism of course).
Dedicated to my annoying, fun, and beautiful siblings; Megan, Makenzie, and Max.
