A lot of times, we value material wealth over experiences and memories. I too am guilty to wanting the latest handbag, the new iPhone and any other shiny thing that everyone seems to be purchasing right now. However, these aren't always the most important things. Life is short and every moment is a gift, so why not enjoy the experiences we get while we can?
Experiences can range from concerts, to movie nights with friends to quiet dinners with grandparents. As we are taking in the present with the people we love, we are creating memories that last a lifetime. While that new iPhone X is awesome while it lasts, it won't give you the memories you can get with family and friends. Though, it will give you amazing photos you can cherish.
Sometimes we choose friends over family and "fun" over quiet nights with our elderly grandparents. While I love my friends and having fun, sometimes those quiet nights with grandparents, aunts, uncles and even parents are important too. People won't be around forever and it's important to enjoy them and squeeze them tight while we still can. If we turn away from these types of experiences, we may regret it a few years down the road when these people aren't with us anymore.
Balance is definitely key in approaching what experiences we choose to have and those we choose to give up. Family time is important so we can recharge and spend time with the ones we love. Family includes the friends that are like family and the people in our lives who have always been there and shape who we are. These people are our personal board of directors, that hold us accountable and provide us counsel. This is why we need them close always, because they are and will always be in our corners.
While the new dress with the cute new shoes will not give you advice or console you when you are sad, you should still treat yourself and buy nice things when you want too. The key is to not let the material wealth overshadow your experiences with loved ones and what you value.
