Dear Ex-Best Friend,
Even though we ended on bad terms, I just want to thank you. You were there for me through the toughest times of my life and for that reason, I am dedicating this article to you. The last time we spoke was towards the end of our first semester of senior year in high school and I really did not think that would be the last time we spoke, but I am kind of glad it was because it was about time we ended our seven-year-long friendship. I can only speak for myself, but I have a feeling that you also felt the same way. Although our friendship ended on bad terms, I want you to know and always remember that I would NEVER take back those seven years even if I could.
If you think about, you and I had the strongest friendship. We fought so much throughout the years but we always ended up back to each other and we never gave up on each other. Middle school through high school is when most people figure out who they are as a person and what they want to do with their life, and you were a part of that journey with me. Without you, I would not have the confidence I have now and I for sure would not be as strong as I am now. You taught me not to let people walk over me, you taught me how to not care what others say, and most importantly, you taught me what to look for in a future best friend. It has been almost three years since we graduated high school, and within those three years SO much has happened for me, both good and bad. But through it all, every now and then I do think about how crazy it is that the person I used to tell EVERYTHING to is no longer a part of my life.
I want to thank you for all the secrets of mine you have kept and for trusting me to keep yours. I want to thank you for the times I was overly insecure, and instead of hating me for it or being annoyed at me, you would constantly remind me why I should not be. I want to thank you for treating me like your own family, and welcoming me into your family. Your family was my second family. I will never forget the memories I created with you all and all the laughs we had. Lastly, THANK YOU for being there for me when my mom got sick. If you were not there, I do not know how I would have gotten through the first few months of that rough time.
Though we had our good times, we for sure had a lot of rough patches and I now know why our friendship finally faded. I made some mistakes and you also made some mistakes, and even though I know you and I most likely will not be speaking to each other again, I want you to know that I will always be here for you if you ever need anything or just feel like talking to an old friend. One thing we promised each other is that we will always be there through thick and thin, and I don't know about you, but on my end, I am keeping that promise. Some friendships fade and people grow up, but memories never fade–they become a chapter in a book that ended.
Good luck to you in your future endeavors. I know you'll be great!
