Sincerely, The Girl Who Dreams Of Having The Corner Office And A Family

Sincerely, The Girl Who Dreams Of Having The Corner Office And A Family

Last time I checked, I'm capable of simultaneously running the world and a household.


This story requires us to fast forward 15 years in the future and to use our imagination a little.

The year is 2034 and I wake up every morning beside my loving husband in our beautiful house in the suburbs just in time to make breakfast together for our children before they sleepily come down the steps into the kitchen. I clean my kitchen and make sure all of the morning chore's are completed before we get our children ready for school. I kiss my husband goodbye as he leaves for his job in the city and I get the kids into the car to take them to school. After dropping them off at school, I head off to work at my high powered job.

I arrive at work prepared for a day full of meetings with people who don't have any time to waste and know much more than I ever will know. I 'm introduced to people who have titles much higher than mine and people who may never be bothered enough to remember my mine. I have a packed schedule but I'm doing what I love most and what I always dreamed of doing with my life. I will smile as I look out of my corner office knowing I have worked my a** off to get where I am and that I deserve everything that I have earned in life.

The clock reads 5:00 pm and I say goodbye to everyone in the office as I hurry to my car because my day is far from over. I have a PTA meeting to run at 5:30 pm and then one of my kids has a soccer game at 6:30 pm. After that, we go get ice cream to spoil our dinner and celebrate, win or lose and then finally head home where I cook dinner for my family. I will finally be able to rest after my husband and I put the kids to bed, but I will be smiling because I know that I have worked my a** off to have my family which I'm so proud of.

Now back to the future, where I find myself being told that it's almost impossible to be able to have the best of both worlds. I'm told that I have to pick one or the other, or if I don't then I have to expect to not be very involved in my future children's lives. Or I'm told that I won't be able to be at the top of my field.

My dream is to be at the top of my career and to have the typical 9-5 filled with meetings and the occasional days where I have to stay late at the office. I also want to live the typical soccer mom life where I'm President of the PTA and at every single soccer game and recital for my future kids. I know that these two dreams don't mix well because of the time that both require in order to be successful at both, but I'm not one to back down from a challenge.

I and other women that have similar aspirations are capable of doing both if we choose so we shouldn't constantly be told that we can't. We know we can have the best of both worlds one day and we can't wait. See ya in 15 years when I'm President of the PTA and at the top of my field.


The Girl Who Dreams of Having The Corner Office and a Family

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I’m Christian And I Don’t Call Myself A Feminist But I Do Believe That Men And Women Are Equal, Just As It Should Be

I'll say it louder for the people in the back.


Recently there was an article published called, "I'm A Christian Girl And I'm Not A Feminist, Because God Did Not Intend For Women To Be Equals." While we are all subjected to our opinions, I have mine and I want to share it to show that just because you are a Christian, doesn't mean you can't be a feminist of some sort.

I am the type of girl that does not necessarily consider myself a feminist, but I am still all for supporting women. I think that men and women should be equal. I think men and women deserve equal opportunities, equal leadership roles, and equal pay. I do not think that men are necessarily superior to women. We are all human and we should all be treated EQUALLY.

I am a strong Christian and grew up going to church and lived in a Christian church my entire life. I love the Lord with everything I have and believe that everything in the Bible is true, but here is how I perceive the creation of women.

Yes, God created man first and then woman, and he created women out of the rib of a man. He created a woman for a man to have a companion because man could not live alone. In order to reproduce, woman had to be created.

So I'll say it again for the people in the back,

Men and women should be treated as EQUALS.

As a woman in the 21st century, I believe in working for my success and reaching my goals on my own, not because a man handed it to me. I believe that women should have equal opportunities as men.

When it comes to relationships however, I have more of a traditional perspective you could say.

I believe that men should pursue women when it comes to a romantic relationship, and I do believe that men should "wear the pants in a relationship" and be the head of the household. But, with that love in a relationship, there should be mutual respect and you should lift each other up and a man should support their woman in whatever she wants to do and the goals she is trying to reach.

Women should do the same, respect their husbands and support them in everything they do, because a relationship is a partnership.

So call it what you want, feminism or not, but I support women.

Everyone is allowed to have their own opinions, but this is mine, and I think that there are many other women out there who could agree.

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'Captain Marvel' Is Crucial For The Progress Of Women Around The World

Men playing superheroes is commonplace. Women on the other hand...


We've entered a new dawn, and it is one that—in the words of Carol Danvers herself—is headed higher, further, faster. The production and release of Marvel's new film, "Captain Marvel," has captured the globe's attention, and for good reason. While critics whose opinions tend to gravitate on Larson's portrayal of the character or attribute their dislike of the film towards a woman playing a superhero, their voices are virtually unheard compared to the roar of women all over the world who see themselves in the titular heroine.

Personally, I believe "Captain Marvel" is a much-needed fresh of air, one that has not come since DC's "Wonder Woman" in 2017.

The inspiration and power that I felt once I had watched Diana Prince hold the stage in her very own movie was akin to none, and it gave me the motivation to see the world through a different lens. I needed more female-dominated movies, more female superheroes, more. "Captain Marvel" was just taking off as a fledgling film, and up until now, the only relief I felt from seeing women as heroes was in 2018's "Avengers: Infinity War," but only for a few scenes.

Now, things are much different. I join the masses of women all around the world, donning aviator sunglasses and powerful smiles, as we wait to see this amazing movie upon its release. "Captain Marvel" means something to us, something that men just don't understand. When all you've seen growing up is men as those saving the world, so of course people will view women as inferior—not to mention years upon years of explicit and implicit sexism and misogyny.

But seeing a woman save herself, save her loved ones, and save the world has power in and of itself.

Little girls will now grow up without question of what they can accomplish, what they can be. Seeing someone like you do great things makes it easier to believe in yourself. It turns the impossible feats of a fictional superhero into the everyday trials of a woman, and if the former can do it with strength and grace, so can you.

Carol Danvers joins both her league of superheroes, as well as the league of dozens of influential, inspirational female characters. She now stands alongside Diana, Wanda, Kara, Natasha, Okoye, Hermione, and Katniss, among so many other fictional women whose existence motivates girls and women everywhere to realize their true potential.

So as the world hurries to see the newest blockbuster Marvel film, women everywhere will turn their heads towards their dreams, towards the skies, and aim to go higher, further, faster.

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