To My Ladies Seeking A Man This Fall
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To The Ladies Seeking A Man This Fall

Stop seeking a temporary person just to enjoy a moment full of memories.


Bonfires, pumpkin patches, corn mazes, oh my!

These are only just a few of the many things we enjoy during the fall. However, for many I know you may think that there is one thing missing- a boy.

Girl, let me just tell you that you can enjoy this just as much if not more with some of your closest girl friends. Stop seeking a temporary person just to enjoy a moment full of memories. If you're looking for a man to just enjoy these moments with just so you'll be spoiled for a season then you'll be disappointed.

Grab some of your closest girl friends and go make memories that you can only make with them. Some of my greatest fall memories have been spent with some of my very best friends.

One Halloween I went to a haunted house with a few of my best friends. I had no man and neither did they. I'll never forget my best friend screaming as she ripped out my head full of extensions as we rounded a corner. I had never laughed so hard. I didn't need a man to hide against when I had my best friend to throw in front of me.

I know it's exciting to have a boyfriend to make these memories with, but there is nothing that will compare when having a season full of memories with your best friends.

Host pumpkin carving or painting parties with your girls while watching cheesy Halloween movies. Better yet, why don't you do it under a massive blanket fort.

Instead of being discouraged and upset over not having a boyfriend to enjoy the holiday festivities with take advantage of the moments and make those memories with your best girls instead.

Find ways to make it fun instead of dwelling on the lack of romance you may be lacking. Don't forget that friends are forever.

This holiday season I do have a husband, but being six hours away from home I really miss my best friends. Instead of seeking just my husband to enjoy the moments with I am going to include all of my new friends and make new traditions and memories with. Friends is important ladies- don't forget that. While it's great to have a boyfriend and a husband who becomes your best friend, it is nothing like being surrounded by some of your best friends making memories that only your girls will understand.

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