It's hard to fall in love again when you been hurt so many times and in your head you're losing control because you want to fall in love again, but you don't want to get your heart broken. Well I'm here to tell you that I know how it feels to want to fall in love or be loved by that special someone, but at the same time you don't want to get hurt.

Throughout life, there are going to be times when you are going to get hurt but that does not mean you should give up on love. Yes, you are going to have to start over and you will have baggage on your shoulder. While you are trying to be strong and carry that baggage, there will be someone who is falling in love with you because of how strong you are. Sometimes when dealing with love and being heartbroken, you will start to doubt yourself and not trust when someone tells you that he or she really likes you and they will never hurt you. Just as to the same person who told you that before, left you with broken heart. Dealing with that will cause you to build a wall and be cold hearted so that you won't get hurt again; but doing that will also cause you to miss out on someone who actually wants to be with you. There's a saying that says, "you have to go throw obstacles to get to where you want to be at in life", so why not make another saying that goes, "I have to go through a process of getting hurt in order to find the person that i am meant to be with despite all the hurt that I've been through in my past". Just remember this when you have an open wound due to a cut, that open wound will soon be a closed because it will have healed over time.

Therefore, throughout time my friend you will heal and you will be okay. If you want to fall in love or be loved and you don't want to trust yourself again then trust someone who will never lie to you ... God.

Remember always love yourself, because if you do not love yourself first then nobody else will.