It Is OK To Be Busy: But Don't Burn Yourself Out In The End

It Is OK To Be Busy: But Don't Burn Yourself Out In The End

Every feel like you're going nonstop and just want to sleep? Ya me too.

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People say that college is the best years of your life, and honestly, I hope whoever says that is SOOO wrong because I want the best years of my life to be spend happy, loving what I do and who I am with and not constantly worrying. YES, college is the time to make those funny memories or have nights you might not remember, but do you really want to peak at 21-22? I sure don't.

Plus for my college (my undergraduate specifically) is all about just getting through and being ready for graduate school. I and many other college students are trying to maintain high grade point averages, pay all their bills, and ya know have the fun college social life you're expected to. AND THAT IS HARD. I work three jobs (approximately 40-50 hours per week) and am a full-time student and have friends I want to spend time with. Not to mention the importance of maintaining good mental and emotional health through it all.

I get this question at least once a week: "when do you ever sleep?"

And my favorite response is "at night."

I work my tail end off between classes, work, health, social life. And I am freaking tired, all the time. Literally to the point where I fell asleep on the hardwood floor of my friend's apartment the other day; with no pillow and no blanket. I was OUT. There comes a point where being busy and working hard is TOO much to handle and you burn out. I have hit that point, don't hit that point if you can avoid it.

Trust me, it is so important to pay your bills on time. It is crucial to study (school comes first), and spend time with your friends. BUT it is not worth jeopardizing your health; mentally, physically and emotionally.

IT IS NOT WORTH IT.

You will feel tired, you will sleep seven or eight hours at night and wake up and still feel tired and like you cannot move on with your day. You will have no motivation, to do school work, or go to the gym or even cook dinner. and when you feel like this it is okay to take some time to relax. In fact, you should take time to just chill. BUT, don't ket it takes over your life. That is how and when everything will go downhill, especially around finals.

When you are not motivated at all to do something, anything, whether it be to go workout, or write that paper or even as simple as making your bed. DO IT!! That is when it is the most important time to do it because if you can do it when you would rather do anything else, you can do anything.

Stay busy, but don't stay too busy.

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To High School Seniors In Their Last Semester

Senior year moves pretty fast; if you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
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Dammit, you made it. The final semester of your senior year. You’re at the top of the food chain of high school, and it feels so good. You’re probably praying this last semester flies by, that you get out of town as soon as possible.

At this point, you’re calling teachers by their first names, the entire staff knows you by name, and you’re walking around school standing tall, owning those hallways. You’re convinced you’re ready to leave and move on to the next chapter in your life.

You’ve already experienced your last football game, standing in the cold in the front row of the student section all season long, decked out in your school colors and cheering loud and proud. That is, until they lost, and you realized you will never have that experience again. Never again.

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You already had your last winter break. Preparing and celebrating the holidays with your family, ice skating and sledding with your best friends. Those quiet nights alone in your room watching Netflix, taking for granted your loved ones just a few rooms away. Never again.

If you’re an athlete, you may have already played in your last game or ran your last race. The crowd cheering, proudly wearing your school’s name across your chest, giving it your all. For some, it may be the end of your athletic career. Before you knew it, you were standing in an empty gym, staring up at the banners and thinking about the mark you left on your school, wondering where on earth the time went. Never again.

I’m telling you right now, you’re going to miss it all. Everything you’ve ever known. Those early mornings when you debate going to first hour because you really need those McDonald’s hash browns. The late nights driving home from practice, stopping for ice cream of course, ready for a late night of homework. Getting food on a whim with your friends. Endless fights with your siblings. Your favorite chips in the pantry. A fridge full of food. Coming home to and getting tackled by your dog. Driving around your hometown, passing the same sights you’ve seen every day for as long as you can remember. Hugs from your mom after a long day. Laughs with your dad. And that best friend of yours? You’re going to miss them more than anything. I’m telling you right now, nothing will ever be the same. Never again.

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Before you start packing your bags, slow down, take a deep breath, and look around. You’ve got it pretty good here. The end of your senior year can be the time of your life; it’s truly amazing. So go to the winter dance, go to Prom, spend Senior Skip Day with your classmates, go to every sporting event you can, while you still can. College is pretty great, but it’s the little things you’re gonna miss the most. Don’t take it for granted because soon, you’ll be standing in a packed gym in your cap and gown, wondering where the heck the time went. You’ve got a long, beautiful life ahead of you, full of joy but also full of challenges. You’re going to meet so many wonderful people, people who will treat you right and people who won’t.


So, take it all in. Be excited for the future and look forward to it, but be mindful of the present. You’ve got this.
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4 Insightful Quotes From 'The Alchemist' That Will Resonate With People Who Want To Follow Their Dreams

Paulo Coelho's famed coming-of-age novel continues to inspire readers today with following their dreams.

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In "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho, a young boy named Santiago embarks on a life-changing journey to find a hidden treasure in the pyramids of Egypt and learns the importance of following one's destiny along the way. Since its release in the 1990s, "The Alchemist" has captivated people all over the world, including TV personality Oprah Winfrey and actor Will Smith.

With its powerful messages of love and gratitude, here are some of the most insightful quotes from the novel that will resonate with those who want to find and pursue their purpose in life.

1. “When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”

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On his journey, Santiago learns that love exists as a universal language in the world. When people follow their dreams and passions, they are driven by the power of love. With this power, one can guide themselves on the path to finding their own treasure and accomplishing their goals. Actively shaping your destiny through love can also positively improve how you perceive everything around you.

2. “When each day is the same as the next, it’s because people fail to recognize the good things that happen in their lives every day that the sun rises.”

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Too often people live their days accustomed to routine and consistency. When you begin treating each day as a new day full of opportunities and find time to appreciate the good things, you start seeing the beauty of life. This importance of practicing gratitude serves as a reminder to the world that life is fleeting, and we must strive to always make the best and see the best of our situations.

3. “And, when you can't go back, you have to worry only about the best way of moving forward.”

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Throughout their lives, people will make mistakes and have regrets, and we will often spend days wondering what we could've done differently. We forget that we can't change the past and that the only thing that matters is how we move forward in the present day. So let go of past mistakes and regrets, and focus on how you can improve the present.

4. “The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the world, and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon.”

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In the novel, Santiago hears a story of a man who wanted to learn the secret of happiness from a wise king. The king told the man to walk around his palace holding a spoon full of oil and making sure not to spill it. After successfully doing so, he returns to the king and he asks if the man had seen all the beauty of his castle, which he ignored in his quest to keep the oil on the spoon. When following our dreams, we must not lose sight of appreciating all the wonders of life along the way; after all, it's not about the destination, but the journey.

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