An 'F' Doesn't Mean You're A Failure
Start writing a post
Student Life

An 'F' Doesn't Mean You're A Failure

Did you get your first F? It's okay!

236
An 'F' Doesn't Mean You're A Failure
previews.123rf.com

Now that the semester is over and break has begun you can finally relax…hopefully. It’s probable that some you reading this might not be able to relax right now given the fact that grades for the semester have just been released, and some of them may not have been as high as you had hoped. You may have actually have gotten the first F in your life this semester, it’s okay, relax, and take a second to breath. Obviously, I’m not encouraging people not to care about failing a class, you should care, you should care a quite a bit actually. What I will say is this, it’s not the end of the world, you are not a terrible student, you aren’t going to flunk out, and you are not stupid. Trust me, I know stupid; earlier today I saw a door that said pull, double checked that it said pull and then tried to push it open…I have my moments.

The fact of the matter is that now you are in college, regardless of how good of a student you were all throughout high school you can’t compare the two, they are drastically different. Chances are the classes you take in college are a lot more intensive then the ones from high school, there’s a learning curve. And I don’t just mean from high school to college; it also applies from class to class. Eventually you start to learn what your preferences are, what you’re good at, and what you’re not good at. You don’t have to be good at everything. I know it’s probably weird to hear someone telling you that it’s okay to fail now and again, but the important thing is that you learn from your mistakes and you come back stronger than before. I have no problem admitting that I have failed two classes in my time here so far, they were really difficult classes and even though I tried very hard in those classes I still didn’t get the result I wanted from them. So I did what I could, I learned from my mistakes, I retook both courses and I managed to pass them, it wasn’t easy, but it wasn’t impossible either.

Now if you really tried your best in whatever class it was that you failed and you honestly don’t believe that you could have tried any harder, than I think you need to take a long hard look at why you decided to take that course. If the answer was to get an easy A, I’m sorry to break it to you, but easy A’s in college generally don’t exist. If the class was for your major though, that’s a different story. Personally, after I failed those classes, I looked at why I chose my major and was it something that I really wanted to do, and how that played in to my grades. After I had reaffirmed myself of my choices that’s when I went back for another go at it, but I think the question you need to ask yourself is, is your major that important to you that you want to give it another go, or do you not even want that major in the first place. Is it just something that someone told you would be a good idea and you went along with it? I don’t know you’re life or the dynamics of your family and friends and their impact on you, because unfortunately that can end up playing a big factor in what we choose to study; this won’t apply for everyone, there are so many individual twist and turns that we all face but just remember to relax and breathe. The world hasn’t ended just yet and hopefully this helped in some way. As per usual, if you wanna talk, you know where to find me. Enjoy break while you can because a new semester is just right around the corner!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
beer on the beach

Summer is hot and humid, and it's almost like summer was made specifically to drink the refreshing, cold, crisp wonderful, delicious, nutritious nectar of the gods. Which is none other than beer; wonderful cold beer. With summer playing peek-a-boo around the corner while we finish up this semester, it's time to discuss the only important part of summer. And if you haven't already guessed, it's beer. There are few things I take more seriously than my beer, in order are: sports... and beer. Here are my favorite summer brews:

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

7 Reasons SoCal Rocks!

75 degrees and sunny, plus, no humidity. I mean do I really need to say more?

928
woman in black and white long sleeve shirt carrying girl in red jacket in Venice beach
Photo by Jeff Hopper on Unsplash

SoCal summers are the best summers by far, and honestly, no argument is needed. But, if you aren't sure why SoCal summers are the best, here are 7 reasons why!

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

25 Lyrics for Selfie Captions

Because let's be honest, we all use lyrics.

53493
woman takes a selfie for social media
Pixabay

Sometimes you can't think of the perfect caption for your Instagram post. I love using lyrics as my captions because there's so many great lines in songs that just seem to fit in the moment. Here are some lyrics that could work for your selfie or pictures of you with your friends!

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Bruce Springsteen's Top 7 Lyrics

Everything Bruce says in his classic rock songs.

19944
bruce springsteen album cover born in the usa

Anyone who was born and raised in New Jersey (or anywhere really) knows of Bruce Springsteen, whether or not they like him is a whole other situation. I hope that his hundreds of classic rock songs and famous high energy performances, even in his sixties he can put on better concerts than people half his age, are at least recognizable to people of all ages. Love him or hate him (I identify with the former) you have to admit that some of his songs and interviews have inspirational quotes and lyrics.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

New England Summers Are The BEST Summers

Why you should spend your next summer in New England.

3242
Marconi Beach

Three years ago, I chose to attend college in Philadelphia, approximately 360 miles away from my small town in New Hampshire. I have learned many valuable lessons away from home, and have thoroughly enjoyed my time spent in Pennsylvania. One thing that my experience has taught me, however, is that it is absolutely impossible to beat a New England summer.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments