Dear Future Husband,
I've tried to put this into words for some time now. I've attempted to sort through my feelings, but sometimes the words escape me. And other times, they find me at the right moment.
The truth is, I don't want you.
Please, hear me out.
I don't want you to put your life on hold until we meet. Please, don't get me wrong. I want you to know that I'm waiting for you, but while I wait, I'm determined to live. And until we find each other, I need you to live your life to the fullest, just as I plan to do.
Please don't settle for less than we both deserve. I know there will probably be girls before me, but don't settle. Hold out for me. Wait for me a little longer.
Dear Future Husband, I don't want you to stay in one place, waiting for what is ahead. I don't want you to let life pass you by. I want you to be bold. I want you to chase your dreams. I want you to step out with faith and go where God calls you.
Dear Future Husband, I don't want you to be scared. I know life is full of uncertainties, but you must be brave. I need you to do this for me, even though you don't know me.
I don't want you to let your family slip away from you. Live your life and travel down your own path, but don't forget the ones who raised you. Don't forget your childhood home. Don't forget, even though I'm sure you're busy. I don't want you to forget the little boy who played in the sandbox and who rode his bike up and down the street. He believed that anything could happen. You are that little boy. I need you to know that anything can, in fact, happen. Remember, God specializes in the impossible.
Dear Future Husband, I don't want you to forget that I already love you, even though I doubt we've ever met.
I don't want you to settle. I need you to be strong. I need you to trust in The Lord. I need you to love me, even though you've never met me.
Dear Future Husband, I don't want you to forget me.
With love,
Your Future Wife