An Open Letter To My Best Friend

An Open Letter To My Best Friend

A huge "thank you" for everything that you do.

Dear best friend,

We all know that narrative — the tale of kindred spirits and soulmates. It's what we see in movies about two people who grow up as best friends or who meet and instantly know they're bonded for eternity. But I can say with complete confidence that that is not the case for us.

Most of the years we've known each other we didn't even speak to another. In fact, if you travelled back in time even just a year and told me that we were going to be the best of friends today, I probably would have shaken my head in disbelief. But now, I can barely imagine getting through a day without one of the greatest blessings I've ever received — your friendship.

But let me begin with our bad moments. We are both awkward people who are a bit arrogant yet unsure of how to conduct ourselves in large groups of people. We have different views on social issues and we don't even like the same music. We often get into arguments and clash over small things. To be honest, there were even times I'm pretty sure we didn't even like each other all that much.

But friendship isn't about a pristine, perfect relationship that always exists between the two of us. For us, friendship is a conscious choice. It's a choice to pick each other up when we feel down. It's your choice to give me endless patience and help me sort through bad thoughts, and it's mine to stay up with you far into the AM hours to cry with you. It's our choice to not give up on each other.

And because our friendship is our choice and not some bond forged from fate and chance encounters, I know that our friendship means just as much to you as it does to me. You send a tidal wave of happiness and love to me every single day and for that, I am endlessly thankful. So although I am confident that we aren't movie-material soulmates, I'm also pretty damn confident that we're going to best friends for a long time.


The most grateful friend in the world

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If Only My Best Friend Wasn't 749 Miles Away

Distance really doesn't change a thing.


People say that absence makes the heart grow fonder and maybe it does, but all I have learned from being so far away from my truest friend is that distance doesn't change anything. She is still the same kind of friend she was when she lived two miles down the road. I still call her when I've had a bad day or when juicy drama happens. She is always the first person I call when the boy I have a crush on says hey to me.

Distance hasn't changed our friendship in the slightest, but these are all the things I wish were still an option for us.

1. Go to movies again.

Going to the movies was our thing. It wasn't a once a week thing either, multiple nights were spent at the movie theatre and honestly our best memories come from the drives to and from some really great and even some really bad 9:00 pm movies.

2. Eat dinner together. 

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3. Not study together. 

Picture this - night before a huge test, you're sitting at a table with your friend and all of a sudden you're planning a Christmas cruise. Failing out of college just isn't the same on your own.

4. Have someone to go everywhere with you. 

Yes you have other friends, but the thing about that one best friend is they never say no when you want to go somewhere. It is just understood that you won't go alone.

5. Get a ride. 

Picking you up from class, a date, anything it just isn't the same when you're trying to escape and you have to drive yourself or get another friend to pick you up.

Somethings honestly and truly are not the same without your best friend. Even with other close friends all those things just don't compare. Sure, you have people to go to the movies with or to pick you up or even to go to random places with, but the memories are so much different. There isn't always the chance to say "dude you remember that one time" with another person because you can say it but they definitely will not remember.

Long distance friendships are not fun, but they are worth it. Distance may take them away from you, but a true bestie will stick with you always even if there are hundreds of miles separating you. It helps you appreciate trips to Walmart and movie nights so much more because life far away from your best friend is honestly just empty.

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