Death is a difficult issue that often occurs with no reason or explanation. Especially when this happens to a Greek member, it is a topic that both hits us hard as well as unites us as a community. As we search for answers to these tragedies, we provide support and a shoulder for each other when needed the most.      

In light of recent events, the passing of Barry Moores (brother of Kappa Alpha fraternity), I have never felt closer to my school and my community in Greek Life. Although we are all off on break, I’ve felt support from across the board. 

Although I wasn’t close with Barry, I knew many people who he touched during his lifetime. I knew he was a friendly, passionate, and funny guy who loved to DJ. Barry was an especially close friend to my sister who attends a neighboring college, and was one of the few people who would constantly make her smile. 

All of my Alpha Phi sisters have joined their condolences for Barry and his family, and many have been there for both my sister and me.  Even though they don’t know my sister well, everyone has passed their love and support on. From Facebook posts to phone calls, it just goes to show how many people Barry influenced and how great of a person he truly was.   

It brings me tears to write about sorrows such as these, which occur more often than they should. After two other tragedies earlier this year, the Greek community has been undergoing constant heartbreak. As painful and disastrous  as these incidences are, it gives me a bit of relief knowing I have over 100 girls in my house there for each other, as well as thousands of people in our Greek community and even more at our school.   

While many non-Greeks view the system as one of partying and hookup-culture, Greek Life is much more than that. From philanthropy to mentorships, advice about school to extracurricular connections, my sorority has helped me in many ways. Especially in times like these, I am honored to be a Greek member. 

Whether we barely knew the person or were best friends with them, we unite together both as an individual house and a whole community to provide care, support, love, respect and prayers towards all those effected. People such as Barry make such an impact on so many lives, and it is in our best effort to ensure that we can truly be there for one another and provide such a strong unity and connection for each other and those around us.