If you think about your friends, whether close or distant, you'll see that some of them are much younger or much older than you. Perhaps sometimes you think about the dating potential with one of them, regardless of their age compared to yours.
If you choose to date someone who is older than you, here is why it's better for you to do so.
1. He/she knows what he/she wants in life
Who doesn't like someone who knows what he/she wants?
2. Older people are secure
They've succeeded in life and know what got them there.
3. He/she has life wisdom
This person has learned from their experiences and has a lot to offer especially with life advice.
4. He/she is a good listener
A person who listens is always worth keeping. He/she works to understand the way you feel, what makes you excited, upset, happy, sad, among others.
5. He/she knows how to give and take
This person understands the importance of balance.
6. Older people are more educated
They have done their research/homework and have studied things for a longer time.
7. Older people are still hard-working
They know that it's important to put in effort
8. He/she is still willing to learn things in life
Lifelong learner. This person is always motivated.
9. He/she actually wants to date
He knows what he's looking for and isn't afraid to go for it.
10. An older person cares about appearing professional/cares about his/her appearance
This person values dressing well especially for you.
11. An older person is independent
He/she has lived on their own for awhile and has worked a job for a long enough time where he/she knows how to look after him/her self. They don't need a man/woman around, but they want one.
12. Older people understand what it is like to be alone
They've been through it and know how to do things on their own. They enjoy the company even when they don't require it.
13. He/she genuinely wants to spend time with you
Even though he/she doesn't need you necessarily, he/she still wants to spend time with you.
14. An older person knows how to trust
He/She has been through a boatload of struggles. But also, he/she has made it through the battle. Looking back, there is a reason why it worked that way.
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After reading this, if you choose to date someone older than you, by all means — Go. For. It.
You are making a decision that feels good to you, and in your heart and head, it is a good choice.
You will learn a lot from this person.
You will learn how to love yourself, and in turn, love another person, on top of loving yourself.
You will learn life experiences and advice that most people can't give, and you will learn to believe in yourself.
You can carry that over into your own life and do it together, and also do it to provide a positive picture for everyone around you. This all carries so much value, and you are worth every bit of it.
