5 Dream Dates Every Girl Wants To Go On

5 Dream Dates Every Girl Wants To Go On

Painting and pottery dates always make a girl swoon!

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I've always been such a hopeless romantic, dreaming of every sweet thing a significant other could do for me. I've grown up on fairytales and loving Pinterest ideas. Over the last week, I recollected on those hopes and dreams I have had when it comes to relationships, and I also went around and asked some of my female friends what dates they have always dreamed of going on. Now, I have compiled a list of 5 dates that most girls are dying to go on!

1. The "surprise" date 

I've always dreamed of a guy planning a whole date and keeping it as a surprise for me. I can imagine getting a text that says, "I'm on my way, dress nice :)" and he takes me to a surprise location for a romantic date night. This date is one that many girls dream of because it's so romantic and it shows the effort your significant other is willing to put into the relationship, which is always a thing to see!

2. The drive-in movie date

This date is super cute because you two just get to cuddle under the stars while watching a movie! I love the idea of this date because it's somewhat old school and it's very cost friendly for those who are worried about breaking the bank! You can even plan a picnic with it if you're feeling extra adventurous!

3. The pottery/painting date

I don't know about you, but I am really creative and I love being artistic whenever I can. Pottery painting is such a fun and cost-friendly date idea because you can make cute little sculptures together and maybe even give them to each other as little gifts! Canvas painting is also a really cute date idea because you two can each paint a half of a giant picture, so when you put your two canvases together, they make the whole picture! Painting, in general, is such a relaxing, low-stress activity that when doing it with someone you love becomes even more enjoyable!

4. The bookstore date

Another easy, cheap, and relaxing date idea is going to a bookstore and reading together! In many bookstores there's a coffee shop inside, so you two can just grab some coffee, a nice book, and relax together. Reading is so good for your brain because it can open your mind to the rest of the world and it's super relaxing, so doing this with a loved one is automatically amazing!

5. A trip to the zoo

This date is pretty self-explanatory, but take your significant other to the zoo! There's nothing cuter than the person you love and animals! You will have the time of your life just looking around at all of the cute animals and taking Instagram worthy pictures of your loved one while making memories with them that will last a lifetime!

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To Everyone Who Hasn't Had Sex Yet, Wait For Marriage, It's The Right Move

If you have not had sex yet, wait.

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Premarital sex is not a new concept, no matter how much people like to pretend it is. You can trace scripture and historical texts back thousands of year to see that lust and fornication have been a problem since… well, since we humans have been problems.

They tell you in sex ed that sex causes you to form a bond with someone. They throw some big chemical names at you that are apparently in your body and cause that emotional attachment to happen, then you move on (or back to) how important condoms are and why STDs are so scary.

As a middle schooler or teenager, you can't understand what it means to become permanently connected to someone as a result of a quick, physical act.

If you haven't even had your first kiss, you really can't imagine what it's like to develop such a complex and intimate connection with someone because you have yet to feel the butterflies in your stomach from a kiss. So you really don't know what it's like to have a whole different type of feeling in your stomach.

You never forget your first love. It's one of the most cliche things you consistently hear, but it's true. Ask anyone. I guarantee your parents can still spurt out their first love's name in a few seconds. And most people never forget their first time. I know all my friends can recount that often awkward and slightly terrifying moment as if it happened an hour ago. When you mix those two, especially if you are in your teens, oh boy.

You never forget that. No matter how hard you try.

Everything you hear about sex is true: it's amazing, fantastic, life-changing, etc. There's a reason people have done it as frequently as they do, for as long as they have. But every time you sleep with someone, you leave a piece of yourself with them. Every time you choose to take that final physical step with someone, you cannot go back and collect that piece of your dignity and soul that you left with someone.

So, imagine what happens when you break up with someone you've slept with. Or that you just hooked up with. You have given someone a little slice of yourself forever. And you can never get it back. And imagine what happens when you do that multiple times. You give a piece of yourself to five, 10, 15, 20 or more people. Then you meet the person that you want to spend forever with. And you no longer have that whole part of you. You've given pieces away, and you can no longer give those to the love of your life.

So, save those pieces for your future spouse.

If you have not had sex yet, wait. If you have, consider not giving more pieces of yourself away to people who are not your spouse. Sex was created to be between two spouses, nobody else. So we need to try to maintain its integrity.

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All Jokes Aside, Cole LaBrant Is The Guy Every Man Should Try To Be

I might get sick of a camera always being in my face, but not the chivalry.

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Sometime last year, I stumbled upon a video posted by Cole LaBrant lip-syncing in the car with his daughter. Of course, like any millennial college student, I fell down the rabbit hole that is YouTube and watched the LaBrant family's entire channel. Although some of their videos are a bit extreme, we can all learn a valuable lesson from Cole LaBrant.

We can all learn a lot from Cole and his wife, Savannah's, love story. Here is a quick recap for those who haven't heard of this cute couple. Both were internet starts before meeting one another, Cole on Vine and Savannah on Musical.ly. They met when Cole took a spontaneous trip to California. Savannah, who had a daughter Everleigh from a previous toxic relationship, met Cole and was worried about how he would feel about her being a parent. Cole stepped up to the plate at only 19 years old.

I have no idea how someone could do that. At nearly 21 years old, I still struggle to remember to water my plants and feed myself let alone care for another human being. Despite barely being an adult, Cole became a great dad for Everleigh. I am not saying all men need to be prepared to become parents by the time their teenage years are over, but we can all learn a bit of responsibility from Cole. Now, he is 22, and he and Savannah are expecting a baby in January. If this kid from Alabama can do it, so can we.

Not only is he a fantastic father figure, but he as such a pure relationship with his wife. For the first few months in their relationship, they did long distance. Savannah lived in California, while Cole went to school in Alabama. Of course, within six months of dating, they were engaged and then six months later they were married. Yes, that is incredibly quick, but if you genuinely found true love, then I guess that's how it works. In their wedding video, Savannah included in her vows she did not think she was worthy of love, something Cole proved was wrong. If you haven't seen their video which has over 30 million views, I suggest you check it out.


OUR WEDDING VIDEO!!! *Vows to 4-year-old daughter* www.youtube.com


This brings up another problem women are haunted by. Ladies, why are we settling for relationships that make us feel unworthy, broken or depressed? Shouldn't we all strive to find a man like Cole who makes us laugh, treats us with the respect we deserve and values us? We should all be nodding our heads right now. Find someone who is your best friend, do not settle for mediocrity or convince yourself you deserve less.

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