Being an identical twin, I grew up with a built-in best friend. Like other twins, we had the same friends, favorite foods, clothes, movies and everything in between. We shared a car and even shared our closet. 18 years of being inseparable would mean that we were in for quite the reality check once college hit and we planned on going our separate ways.

Now, over 1,000 miles away and a slight time change, we have learned to adjust to being apart from one another – although the transition hasn’t been easy.

A few tips to manage college without your twin are:

1. Utilize FaceTime as much as possible

My sister and I aim to FaceTime at least once a day and sometimes even twice. A phone call is great, but seeing your twin face to face makes it bearable to be apart. Maybe even introduce them to your friends.

2. Establish a close group of friends

Nothing fills the gaping hole left when your twin is gone, but having great friends comes pretty close. Surrounding yourself with a strong support system is everything in college – especially if you’re used to relying on someone else.

3. Enjoy every moment of your own college experience

The time you and your twin spend apart is time for you to grow independent from each other and learn more about yourself. Go out with your friends, stay up all night, explore and make your own memories away from your twin.

4. Be sure to visit each other

While it is hard to be away from one another, the distance makes the reunion so much better. All of the memories you make apart make the visits so much better because your twin can see the places and people you talk about during your hours of FaceTimes.

Truly, distance makes the heart grow fonder.