What College Has Taught Me
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What College Has Taught Me

Lessons learned as graduation quickly approaches

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What College Has Taught Me
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Time flies.

We've all heard this too many times to count. We used to hear our parents, teachers, family and other adults say this and roll our eyes, thinking that this was an exaggeration.

But, alas, the old adage is true.

Here I am, 22 years young and preparing to graduate from college in a little less than two months.

College has without a doubt been an incredible experience, good days and bad days alike. Most people would cite the exciting and memorable moments made throughout these four years, but for me, what made truly appreciate the college experience was the "space."

Yes. Space. Very ambiguous, but that's the beauty of it.

High School is very structured. Same classes every day, same people. Calling this routine would be an understatement.

College frees us from the reigns of this structure. Instead, we are given space. Space to think for ourselves. Space to formulate our own strategies for success. Space to make mistakes. Space to grow.

So, how was my space defined? Observing.

My four years were spent observing and conversing with as many people as possible. These four years have given me the opportunity to meet and to connect with individuals from all across the globe. To discuss a plethora of topics with those who don't agree with me and with those who have lived a similar life to that of my own. To me, this is priceless and has given me a gift that will last a lifetime -- perspective.

If these past few months hasn't shown the world that perspective is greatly needed, then I don't what will. The world is constantly changing and it's our job to understand where we fit in this dynamic puzzle that we affectionately call life.

College is a moment in our lives to look beyond ourselves without too many pressing distractions. Yes, there are exams. Yes, many of us, including myself, have to balance work on top of the responsibilities we already have.

That being said, college is such a unique time. Never again will you have so much control over your time. Never will you have the freedom to indulge in what your day-to-day activities consist of in the manner that the college experience allows you to. I will forever be grateful for these four incredible years.

Sometimes a little space is all we need to figure out ourselves. Sometimes a little space gives us just enough room to stop and think about what it is we really want in life. Conversely, sometimes space can be too much. Sometimes some of us need more structure. Some need to have their schedules filled to the brim. Whatever your choice may be, college is a time to try every approach. Make mistakes, change your major, meet people. Don't stay in your comfort zone. Challenge your way of thinking. Become a better you.

College went faster than I could've ever imagined. There isn't a thing about this experience that I would change and it has helped to steer me in the direction that I want to go in life. Whatever next challenge comes my way in life, I am ready and willing to face it.

Thank you for the college experience for giving me space to create, to make mistakes, to carve my own path. Don't take these years for granted. Embrace them and create your own lane in life.

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