Why I Believe the First Year's the Hardest | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Life Stages

Why I Believe the First Year's the Hardest

What pressures are placed on a new college student? Does it get better?

22
Why I Believe the First Year's the Hardest

In This Article:

It's my first year at University. I am a general engineering student with my life out in front of me. Yet, the pressure of college often has me feeling down despite the growing and blossoming career I have.

As a freshman, we enter college with hopes and desires. We hear the words of encouragement, and also the downfalls of those who dropped out their first year. "It's harder than high school" is heard years before we even begin. We don't believe them. As I had a 4.0 GPA in high school and was 6th in my class, I never thought I'd struggle. But I have. College is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Not just the classes, homework, exams and studying; but the life changes that come along with college. Many college students experience mental health problems that increase with these large life changes.

Not being around my friends, my parents, my dog, or my now ex-boyfriend. Moving in and going away from all those I cared about put me in a whirlwind of emotions and put me in one of the worst depressions I've ever had to face. This isn't just my story, but the story that thousands of other college students share across the nation. We're often such in a rush to get to our dream college that we don't take time to also slow down, appreciate the life changes and our great future ahead.

Despite any grief, or damage to our mental health we must push through, seek out help and build a support system around us. I now have friends on campus, and it's made the entire transition to college life much easier. I'm no longer sitting alone in my dorm room, eating lunch alone and having little human interaction. I am now involved in clubs, I attend college events on campus and I have a loving support group of friends to help me with any bumps in the road.


All in all, the first year is the hardest. Your whole life is changing, but as someone still going through it; it gets better.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

656714
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

552827
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments