Christian Boys Vs. Godly Men

Christian Boys Vs. Godly Men

It is time to stop settling for the lesser of the two.
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Ladies, there is a huge difference between a Christian boy and a Godly man; therefore, it is time to stop settling for the lesser of the two.

So many times I hear girls saying:

“Well, he’s a Christian.”

“He goes to church with me.”

“He listens to Christian music.”

“He went to church camp.”

“He has a favorite bible verse.”

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Well, all of those things are just peachy and there is nothing wrong with doing those things. I mean, they’re all good things to do. But how is his personal relationship with God? How is his prayer life? Does he talk about his relationship with God, with you? Is he truly a follower of the one true God in all aspects of his life? These are some of the characteristics you should be looking for that makes a Godly man.

Ladies, a man will love you great when he loves God greater.

A Godly man will pursue an honest relationship with you. He will be clear of his intentions. A Godly man will worship, pray and passionately praise God with you. Whereas, a Christian boy might open the door for you, a Godly man will open his bible and explore God’s word with you so that you both may grow spiritually, together. While a Christian boy may put on an outward show, a Godly man will live out the love of Jesus daily.

So ladies, are you catching on to this ongoing trend? A Godly man does more because you deserve more.

A Godly man will be a leader. Trust me, I know that in today’s society Godly men are few and far between while Christian boys come in plenty. But you deserve a man who is after God’s heart not just a boy who goes to church. And I know that this Christian boy may seem great and have some really stellar qualities at the time but money and looks fade, whereas, an ongoing love for our savior will not.

The greatest thing a man can do for a woman is to lead her closer to God than himself. (Yes, yes, yes).

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So I beg of you, do not settle. Do not settle just because you’re tired of being single, it’s convenient or because you want the relationship your friend has. Single does not equal available and a relationship status does not define you. God uses your season of singleness to prepare you for what is to come. And if you’re dating a Christian boy, he needs to step it up or you need to move on. Wait for a Godly man who is ready to lead you. God’s timing is always better, always. No matter the circumstance. So, do not rush God. (I mean, He is, after all, pretty good at His job). Therefore, turn your full focus to Him and He will direct your path.

“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:33

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12 Bible Verses For Faith In Hard Times

Remind yourself that God is always with you.
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Lately, I have felt lost at what God wants for my life. Ever since I've come back to UWG everything has been horrible. It seems that I can't catch a break. I'm trying my best to focus on school, work, and extracurricular activities. But it's hard when I'm having issues with my apartment/roommates and knowing my family back home is struggling and needs many prayers. All, I keep thinking is maybe Carrollton isn't where I belong anymore. I've asked God if He can guide me in the right direction. Below, I have found Bible verses that have helped get me through these rough, past couple of weeks.

1. Isaiah 43:2

"When you go through deep waters, I will be with you."

2. Psalm 37:5

"Commit your way to the Lord. Trust in Him, and He will act."

3. Romans 8:18

"The pain that you've been feeling, can't compare to the joy that's coming."

4. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed in strength, and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future."

5. Joshua 1:9

"Be bold. Be brave. Be courageous."

6. Ecclesiastes 3:1

"There is a time for everything and a reason for every activity under the heavens."

7. Isaiah 41:10

"Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand."

8. Isaiah 66:9

"I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born, says the Lord."

9. Psalm 91:4

"He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings, you will find refuge; His faithfulness will be your shield and rampart."

10. Psalm 62:1-2

"My soul finds rest in God alone, my salvation comes from Him, He alone is my rock and my salvation."

11. Philippians 4:13

"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength."

12. Jeremiah 29:11

"For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

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Make Voting Great Again

There is no better way to celebrate your country than to vote.

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Being an American comes with many rights and privileges, and chief among them is the right to vote. When we become adults, we are given the opportunity to exercise this right and have a say on who we want to represent us on the local, state and national levels. This is an opportunity that too few people have in the world, and yet it is one that only a fraction of Americans actually take advantage of.

We often hear about the issue of low voter turnout in this country. In the 2016 presidential election, only 60% of eligible voters cast a ballot. In the last midterm election, only 35% voted. These statistics unavoidably beg the question; how can we elect the best representatives if so few Americans are willing to engage in the voting process?

First, we need to understand why Americans aren't voting. For many, it's a matter of convenience. Either they are too busy during the day to vote, or they don't know how the process works. Many don't know how to register to vote, or where their polling place is located. For others, they either don't feel like their vote matters or they are unhappy with the candidates.

The problem with these excuses is that they can all be solved. You can figure out how to register with just a simple google search. There are countless resources to tell you everything you need to know regarding registration, and other procedures. If you are too busy to find time to vote in person, you can request an absentee ballot and vote from home. It only requires a few minutes of your time to educate yourself and learn how to participate.

As for those who refrain from voting because they feel the system is corrupt, that sounds like an excuse that stems from complacency and, to be honest, downright laziness. If you educate yourself on the issues that various candidates are talking about, you are bound to find a candidate that you agree with on matters that are important to you. Whether that's taxes, healthcare or education, you will surely find yourself approving of one candidate over the other.

In my opinion, Americans, especially young Americans who turn their noses up at voting are showing complete ingratitude for the freedoms they have been granted. Democracy is what gives us the power to have a say in what kind of country we want to live in, and what values we want our country to stand for. We were founded on the principle of the governors working for the governed, not the other way around, and we cannot uphold this principle if the governed refuse to participate in this process.

There are so many people around the world who would give anything to have a say in who ran their respective countries. I'm sure that those living in repressive governments would not complain about their indifference toward certain candidates if they were given the opportunity to choose their next leader.

Also, not voting can be equivalent to cutting off your nose to spite your face. When you don't vote, you are only harming yourself and your own personal interests. Don't expect the masses to choose the best candidate for you and your beliefs. If you don't vote, the government could be controlled by those with policies that are unhelpful or even harmful to you, and you have to live with the fact that you had the opportunity to create a better outcome, but didn't.

With all of this in mind, I think we can all agree on the importance of voting. However, it can still be a chore. After a long day of work or school, the last thing we probably want to do is wait in line for a while in an overcrowded building. Thankfully, there are things you can do to make voting funner!

My tip, don't go alone! Taking your friends or family can make the whole ordeal quite fun. I, personally am going with my parents after classes, and then we are going to have dinner together! So not only is voting not a chore, but I am actually really looking forward to it.

So, no matter what your political views are, no matter your gender, race or religion, you have a voice on November 6, 2018. This is the one day you can show the whole country what you stand for and how you want the country to be represented. So, please please please vote. The country needs you.

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