As a girl, we stress over everything, especially when it comes to guys that we like. Literally, our hair, makeup, outfit, eyebrows, everything has to be perfect or everything will go wrong. Seriously y'all, some of us probably won't even eat the whole day before going out with a guy at night just so we don't look bloated. It's crazy but it is so true. Now, some of you girls may say, "No, I don't care about anything; they get me as I am as when he met me." Yeah, I say the same thing, but deep down we all know the truth. You care. It's okay. But, are you like me and wonder, do guys care about all of that? Do they care at all? Do they stress?
Us girls, we over-stress, overthink, overreact... We are just a bit much sometimes, but that's okay because we are girls and we have that right. We wonder if we are getting on a guy's nerves, we wonder if we look decent when we are laughing, we wonder if guys actually care about our outfits when we get all dolled up, you think it and we all wonder it. But honestly, are guys the same way? Do they care if they're hair looks good or if they're dressed good enough for us or if they're being annoying? Do they care at all? Okay, of course they do, but is it as much as a girl?
As a girl, I constantly ask myself if I am overreacting or not reacting enough. I constantly question everything I do because I don't want to be judged by a guy or a stranger. No, I don't really care what people say about me, but I still don't like the feeling that I am being talked about. Are guys the same way? Sometimes, I sit back and think about this for hours and can still never come up with an answer. I doubt that I ever will, but that's okay. Just like some people want to be a fly on the wall to hear what other people are saying, I want to know what a guy stresses about when it comes to girls. Is that normal? Sure, but there are some things in life we will never know and I've accepted that.
To all the guys out there, if you do stress about stuff like this, tell a girl, so they will stop stressing over if you stress about this stuff too or not.
Thanks in advance, from a stressed out girl.
