Remove yourself from the strenuous circumstances of life. Take a deep breath and regroup.


Every day we are faced with a challenge. We stand fearful, positioned toward the vast ocean that is life, and are presented with the question of whether or not we will choose to sink or to swim. We step foot into that ocean as we feel the sand beneath our feet as the water glides over them. They say "curiosity killed the cat," but as this curiosity peaks inside of us, we cannot help but explore it. We stand alone in the face of danger, but the desire for adventure burns like a raging fire inside of our souls. We cannot help but imagine the future that lies ahead of us within these roaring waters, and our intuition gets the better of us. We move further into the water.

I am waist deep, yet I feel nothing. This ocean is calm and inviting, and I begin to wonder what lies beneath. I tempt fate, though I know in my heart that I should turn back.

Without warning I am pulled underwater, submerged beneath dark blue depths. I am one with the ocean, wafting in the endless rupture of currents surrounding me. They come from every direction, pulling me forward and ever so suddenly pushing me backward. The force of the waves overwhelm me, and I am unable to stay adrift. The regrets around my ankle are chained to an anchor that lies on the ocean's floor. I am not alone in the water, for I remain accompanied by the decisions I have made.

In my mind, I ponder whether or not this choice has become irreversible. I picture the shore that lies miles behind me. It is where I came from, it is who I am. It is who I will always be.

A break in the waves allows me to recover and force my head above the water. I circle the current as I glance back at the shoreline, the place I can call home. Massive waves are visible in the distance, and I know that it is time to sink or swim. I take a deep breath, and I choose to swim.

I battle the water as it fights to engulf me. My eyes are locked in the distance as I make my journey, turning my head to avoid the salt from burning my nose. I continue to breathe as I make my way closer to safety, leaving behind each downfall and deterrent of the past in every wave that I tread. I know that nothing in life comes easily, though I find that, within each of my endeavors, I had been preparing myself to swim.

I stumble onto the shore and I kiss the sand as the water relieves itself from my lungs. I completed the journey. I learned to let go of all that holds no meaning. The weight has been lifted, and I can breathe again.

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Gina Brennan

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7 Things You Do If You’re One Of Those 'I Always Order Chicken Tenders' People

It's hard to love food but also hate it at the same time.


Growing up, my mom would usually have to cook me a separate dinner from my siblings. Why? Because I was ridiculously picky and wouldn't eat the same foods as everyone else. Trust me, it gets old. It's not my fault certain things just taste gross, you learn to live with it.

1. You eat something you hate just to see if you still hate it

I'll take a bite of a burger every once in a while just to reaffirm that it still tastes like dirt. I just have to know. Don't even get me started on vegetables.

2. When trying to explain what you actually like to eat, people give you major side eye

Don't ask me about my eating habits unless you want to get into a long, confusing conversation.

3. Eating at someone else’s house when you were younger was a pain

You hate to tell their parents just how much you hate the food that they gave you. So, you sucked it up and ate it anyway only to come home and whine to your parents.

4. There’s one thing on any menu you always fall back on...even if it’s on the kids menu

Pizza, maybe. Chicken tenders, always.

5. Trying a new food is a very proud moment

It's like, wow! Look at me being all adventurous.

6. When you realize you actually like some new food, that’s an even more amazing moment

Crazy times. This rarely happens.

7. Sometimes it’s the texture, sometimes it’s the flavor, all the time it’s left on your plate

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It's 2019, And I Still Use A Weekly Planner

There is something about physically writing things down for that makes it easier to remember dates and deadlines.


Even with all the technology that is available to us nowadays, I still use an old-fashioned planner. I keep it in my backpack and you will see me pull it out if I need to add events for that week. Usually I will review the syllabus for my classes at the start of each semester and put down the important test dates or dates for other assignments. By doing this, I get a visual outline of what each will look like and what weeks will be extra heavy with school and other clubs that I am involved in on campus. Even though having this is a nice tool to help plan ahead and budget my time, it is by no means a failsafe. Sometimes I get this feeling that I forgot to do something that day but can't think of what it is. When this happens, I can refer back to my planner and look to see if I missed anything. The key point is to not forget to write things down, otherwise, all will be lost.

With today's technology, iPhones can do pretty much anything, I am aware that there is google calendar which can be synced up with a MacBook as well. This doesn't work for me because it takes too long to enter the events in my phone and I have not grown used to it. Another point is that I don't have a MacBook so it would only be accessible from my phone. I have found that it is just quicker to jot an event down by hand in my planner. For some people this might seem like a hassle having to pull out their planner when wanting to write down something they need to accomplish for that day. Since people spend a lot of time being on their laptops or phones it would be more convenient for them, being that they know how to work the app.

Either way, keeping a daily schedule or planner has many benefits. As mentioned before, it can help reduce the possibility of forgetting important due dates for exams or projects and other deadlines. Writing things down can also help reduce stress. There are times where there is too much on our plate to handle at once, we might have the feeling that everything needs to get done, which can be overwhelming. When I put things down on paper, it doesn't seem as bad and I can take care of what needs to be done at the moment and then work from there. I feel great after checking off a couple things from my to-do list because I can see that progress is being made.

Another use is to build in some time to relax or just time for yourself into your daily or weekly schedule, this can prevent the feeling of being burned out. Building in free time should have limits, especially for people who may spend too much time watching Netflix or Television. I would know because there are times where it can feel like hours go by and I haven't accomplished anything productive.

I highly recommend anyone who is in college to keep a planner, otherwise the stress can be too much to handle.

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