To the Boy who Cheated
Contrary to what the title may imply, this article will not be an all out bashing session to the boy(s) who did me wrong, so if that is what you were hoping for, sorry! I know there are many of us who have been cheated on, stomped on, and downright played, but after all the tears and all night movie and ice cream sessions, there is another way to handle the little two timer. That is, if you are willing to keep an open mind and an open heart. Maybe I am a hopeless case when it comes to having a backbone, but I have recently come to the realization that I wish something different for the boy who played me rather than that he would simply walk off a cliff and plummet to his death… too much? I want us revenge seekers to step back and think “maybe I can turn this into something positive, and just hope and pray that Jesus enters the life of those who need a little more of Him.” *Cough, cheaters, cough cough*
To the boy who cheated, please know that this is not me in any way condoning what you did. I just want to simply ask you to please not do this to another girl. Stop breaking hearts to pass time. I understand the whole “sew your wild oats while you’re young” thing, but not all of us twenty somethings believe in that sort of lifestyle. All that I am asking is if your desire is to have flings here and there, please communicate and make sure that is what the other person wants too.
To the boy who cheated, please don’t show a girl love, let her give you her heart, and then cheat on her in return. When it comes down to it, you obviously didn’t want the relationship to begin with if that is how you’re going to behave. If you aren’t happy in the relationship you are in or simply just want to be single and free, then please end the relationship first before you start exercising the freedom that you don’t have.
To the boy who cheated, all I want for you is to turn into the God fearing man that every girl dreams of. All I want for you is to find the girl that was made for you and realize that you don’t need anymore flings. To the boy who cheated, stop thinking that I miss you or care about you because this article in no way should give you that impression. I want you to know that I have found love and happiness in a man who pursues me every day. I have found a man that loves me for who I am and helps me to be a better me instead of trying to change and morph me into something I am not. I have found a man who seeks Jesus first. To the boy who cheated, I found a man.
