To My Boyfriend's Next Girlfriend
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To My Boyfriend's Next Girlfriend

You better treat this man like the king he is.

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To My Boyfriend's Next Girlfriend
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Hey you.

I bet this is pretty awkward, right? Receiving a message from your current boyfriend's last girlfriend? At the moment I'm writing this, we are on the verge of breaking up. We have fundamental differences that we fought to overcome for almost two years, but there's a point when you can't stay together no matter how much you love each other.

So listen here. You better treat this man like the king he is. Touch his skin every chance you get. Tell him how gorgeous he is everyday. Never let him forget that he has an undeniable ability to change the world if he utilized his gifts. Relish the fact that he's honest and brutally frank. That man doesn't say a single thing he doesn't mean.

Ask him questions that no one else can seem to answer. If he doesn't know, he'll spend hours googling information with you. Enjoy that, but remember to help keep him on track. Procrastination and leisure-time management are his two biggest downfalls.

Remember that you can't be insecure with yourself if you're going to be with him. You need to own who you are. This man is fiercely intelligent and is usually never wrong. While he will never, ever make you feel bad about yourself, it is easy to compare yourself to him. Remember that you have valuable qualities too.

Let him teach you new things. Let him experiment with food. Allow him to wear the same clothes whenever he wants to. Jam to EDM together. Learn to enjoy life as throughly and completely as he does.

Never lie to him. Never deceive him or manipulate him or hurt him in any way. Tell him how great his sex is. Buy him presents he would love but would never buy for himself. Remember that he takes his job very seriously and is often stressed. Clean the house and make him food before he gets home. It doesn't have to be extravagant. A frozen pizza will work just fine.

Teach him that the woman he's searching for does exist. And never, ever let him go.

This man was the love of my life. I gave my heart to him. He gave his heart to me. I am so jealous of your ability to be with him, but at the same time, I'm grateful. This man is the most wonderful person I've ever met. I have never met someone with such a beautiful soul. I beg you to give him everything he needs because I just can't.

And if you find that being with him isn't right for you, leave immediately. Give him an explanation and dance your fingers across his skin one last time. Please don't waste his time. He is too him to be unhappy.

Much Love,

Me

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