Yes, you read the headline right. My best friend was a side chick and she is not at fault.
But before you freak out about how being with a taken man is her fault, my best friend had no idea her man was already in a relationship. Unfortunately, she dealt with the world's biggest f*ckboy.
This f*ckboy slid into her DMs, and he was dark, tall, and handsome... everything my best friend had been searching for, and right after a messy breakup. I was ecstatic for her because he seemed like the right person for her, everything that she deserved.
However, soon after they began "talking," there were many red flags, including him sending her the wrong girls' names, not contacting her for days, never wanting to take pictures, and blocking her and never unblocking her on Instagram after an argument.
You may be thinking, how did she not realize something was up with him? If you have ever dealt with a f**kboy, you know that they can be the ultimate manipulator and that your excitement over a blossoming new relationship can blind you from seeing the red flags.
After about six months of "talking," but him never making it official, my friend was on her Finsta and her boy showed up in her suggestions. Keep in mind she's still blocked on her main account and then she sees in his bio 4/4/17 and a heart emoji with initials next to it.
She sends him the screenshot and asks him what this means, his literal response was "Yeah, I have a girl. Is that a problem?"
IS. THAT. A. PROBLEM.
Uh, yes, f*ckboy that is a problem. It is a problem that you wasted six months of my best friend's life — a girl who did not deserve this.
It is a problem that you told my best friend you "loved" her, but were in a relationship.
It is a problem you still have a girlfriend of 10 months, who has no idea that you are a cheater.
It is a problem you do not realize it is a problem.
Yes, my best friend was a side chick, and she is not at fault because she had no idea and I know she would never be involved with someone with a girlfriend if she knew.
To all the girls out there who have had to deal with a f*ckboy (or multiple), do not worry there are plenty of nice boys and you will find yours. And to my best friend's f*ckboy, I would expose you and post the screenshots she has (yes, I am that petty), but after careful consideration, I realize that karma will get you in the end.
