In today's day and age, it is no rarity to be part of a blended family. Whether it be by death or divorce, it is unfortunately common. Being part of a blended family can be very tough, and the toll it takes on us kids can be even worse. With that said, whether it is dealing with step-parents, step-siblings, half-siblings or your step-siblings step-siblings, there is only more room for love created. These new relationships though unsettling at times, can be some of the greatest blessings you can ever receive.
Being a kid who grew up in a household with my mom and dad and one older brother until high school, and then becoming a young adult with a mom, a dad, an older brother, a step-dad, a younger step-sister, a younger step-brother, a step-mom, and a half younger brother, you could say I had a bit of a life change... These events can change the type of person you are. Though the adjustment can be tough, your family has grown. And grown family means grown love.
What are some benefits of being part of a blended family?
1. Happier Parents
It's
no secret that living as a child in a home with unhappy parents is
anything less then torture. Though every child wishes that their mom and
dad will be together as "one big happy family," if their being separated
makes them happier people, they in turn will be happier parents and we
will be happier children.
2. More Role Models
While every child looks up to their parents as their greatest hero and role model, it is valuable to have someone that you are not related to biologically to be a role model for you as well. Though they are not your biological parent, they love you and are always looking for your best interest. There is nothing wrong with having a double support system that you know will look out for you unconditionally.
3. Being able to adjust to new environments
Lets face it, being a kid can be real tough. And being a kid who experiences the loss of a parent or a divorce can be even more difficult. When we are put in the situation of adapting to new relationships so close to home, it gives us the opportunity at a young age to learn the valuable skills of adaptation, which will continue to help us in our lives, whether it be moving schools, or going away to college.
4. Money
Being part of a family with a low income based on a single parent household can be very tough. It puts a lot of stress on a parent that is easily radiated towards a child. Becoming part of a bigger family means a bigger income. This greater income will alleviate these stresses and thus create a more positive energy throughout the entire household, parents and children alike.
5. More Love
It is no surprise that becoming part of a bigger family, some members of which have been strangers to you your whole life, is difficult. With this said, you all share a similar bond that unites you as a whole. More family means more love. It means another set of eyes looking out for you, and other sets of fists ready to fight for you. Growing up I never expected to be a part of a blended family, but it has become one of the greatest blessings I have ever received.
