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I'm The Millennial Lady Who Dreams Of Real Love, Not Hookups, And It SUCKS

I’m definitely not asking you to do anything crazy or big like donating your left kidney to me... So why are you acting like I am?

Katrina Burton

Jan 28, 2018

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I'm The Millennial Lady Who Dreams Of Real Love, Not Hookups, And It SUCKS

Katrina Burton

Everything about this generation is exhausting.

It seems like no one is actually real or loyal anymore and trying to start something new with anyone is a hassle. To be a genuine person who wants to find love and actually wants to be someone's forever is sort of rare.

It's something you don't see much anymore.

Society has somehow brainwashed us all to believe that being with someone just "isn't cool" and that messing around and playing people is the new norm and I'm not okay with it. I'm not okay with watching basically every single person I know get played. I'm not okay with little girls thinking that real love doesn't exist. I'm not okay with so many people giving up because heartbreak is all they know. I know how difficult it is.

I meet people every day and finally, one person actually stands out from the rest.

They're kind, beautiful, and all-around what I need and then the doubts start coming. What if they don't like me? What if they're talking to a bunch of other people? What if all they want is sex? What if they're one of those annoying people who talk to someone new every week, claims they're in love, and then has a different bae again the week after that? Many times, the people I meet end up being one of those doubts. Well, I'm not that person. I never will be.

I'm not asking anyone for a lot.

I'm not asking you to get on your knees and beg for me. I'm not asking you to buy me things and call me pretty. I'm not asking you to sell your soul to me. I'm not asking you to give anything up. I'm asking you to actually get to know me. I'm asking you to tell me everything about you. I'm asking you to step into my life and trust that I'm not one of these everyday people. I'm asking you to vibe with me mentally and physically. I'm asking you to love me without holding anything back, even if it ends up being just for the moment.

I'm definitely not asking you to do anything crazy or big like donating your left kidney to me... So why are you acting like I am?

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I'm The Millennial Lady Who Dreams Of Real Love, Not Hookups, And It SUCKS

I’m definitely not asking you to do anything crazy or big like donating your left kidney to me... So why are you acting like I am?

It's something you don't see much anymore.

I'm not asking anyone for a lot.

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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