So many people around me are exceptionally social and outgoing. They’re always hanging out with each other, going shopping together, and eating every meal with at least one other person. I, on the other hand, prefer to be alone the majority of my time, and until just recently always thought that I was weird for it. I always thought, “maybe I have social issues” or “I’m just a loner because I like hanging out by myself.” Until I finally realized that it’s who I am and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Leaving time to yourself is such an important thing. So often, people spend so much time with peers that they forget who they are and what they stand for. I’m not saying friends aren’t a crucial part of everyone’s life. I just think having some time to yourself is equally as important. Many people need that interaction with friends to get through each and every day. While I love all of my friends dearly, I don’t have any problem with being alone.
It’s okay to be an introvert. Being alone lets your mind race and think things through. Some of us need time alone to make sense of what happens in the world. We just process things in our mind differently than others and it’s hard to understand unless you are the same way; it takes time. Being quiet also makes you mysterious. People want to get to know you and find out who you really are! Those people are your real friends.
Being independent doesn’t mean you don’t have friends. I actually have a pretty large group of friends compared to most. But, it’s also important to be able to function without the help from others. You aren’t going to have people with you every second of your life, learn to love hanging out with yourself!
Being able to appreciate spending time alone is always a good thing- and a good time to test new dance moves.
