Being shy, how many times this very word has been used. So often it is associated with being timid and quiet, being soft spoken and gentle. It's as if society sees shyness in a single light. If one is considered shy they must automatically fall into a single category. But, being shy doesn't mean one is silent. It doesn't mean a person can't be brave, endearing and adventurous. That one lacks the ability to have a personality. A shy person is not bland. Nor do they allow others to oppress them. Shyness is nothing more than an adjective, a descriptive word. Yet, there are so many other words that a shy person is tired of hearing.

1. You're so quiet.

Sometimes, but not always.

2. He/she is so nice.

How do they know? They don't even know you.

3. Being shy is cute.

4. You must be an introvert.

Since when does being an introvert mean you're shy? One can be shy and an extrovert.

5. The assumption that one is naive or innocent.

This one doesn't make any sense.

6. That being shy equates to being book smart.

Sure some shy people are book smart, while others are street smart with a few who are both.

7. That you must have very few friends.

Actually it's quite the opposite.

8. Or barely leaves the house.

Surprisingly, flipping through a magazine and sipping coffee isn't one's only hobby.

9. That you can't be outgoing and shy.

Everyone is still up to trying new things, they just may be approached differently.

10. Lack of personality.

Try getting to know them first.

11. Every shy person is very similar.

This is absolutely not true. Each person has a new and exciting personality that shines through.