Time changes a family dynamic in many ways. Although unlike most sons and brothers, I never became too big for hugs or affection as a 22-year-old recent college graduate. Long gone are the days of being completely dependent on you guys for completely basic tasks or needing one of you to run over with a bandage and hugs after scraping a knee. You raised me to be well rounded and self-sufficient so that eventually when I am on my own I'll be able to survive. It is because of this that surprisingly unlike some of my friends my age I can cook, do my own laundry, take care of myself when I am sick, etc. I can safely say that you did a pretty good job in turning me into a well-rounded, somewhat mature adult.
Recently when I found out I needed surgery I will admit I was concerned about the after-care only because this would be the first time in a while that I wouldn’t be able to do daily tasks by or for myself. I would like to thank you for all the help you have all given me during the past week. Our family bond has always been strong, but I will admit I was shocked that you guys all know when it was that I needed you the most.
Even though I had refused to admit it, you had known I was scared to the point of a nervous wreck the day before the operation. Also you had known I was more nervous the day of surgery then any other time in my life. I appreciated that the both of you drove me to the hospital center at the ungodly time of 6:00 am. Right before surgery you held my hand and it made the whole situation okay. This must have been an interesting sight- a grown 6'2 200 pound man shaking and looking for his mom's hand to hold, but still it was nice to not have to go through that alone.
When I came home I was more out of it then I expected to be and honestly four days later I am still pretty out of it and have been relying on all of you for so much. I feel bad because I know all of you are so busy with work, but honestly the amazing, nurturing attention that I have been receiving by all of you is heart warming.
Thank you for walking me up the stairs when I could not do it alone and putting a chair in my room for me. Thank you for letting me hold the big TV hostage in my bedroom. Thank you for feeding me at all hours of the day and for making sure I have plenty of water to drink. Thank you for waking me up when its time to take my medication. Thank you for the endless amounts of ice cream and slushy's. Most importantly thank you for letting me know that I have a support system I can depend upon and for showing me how loved I truly am. I know that the past couple of days have not been convenient or easy for you guys, but to me they mean the world.
