You only said it once, but once was more than enough. You must not realize the impact that words can have on someone, so let me just break it down into something even you will understand. If you tell a girl she's beautiful, she won't remember it. If you call a girl ugly, she will remember it forever. I'll never forget exactly where I was, what I was doing and more importantly the look on your face when you said those three hateful words.

You didn't hurt my feelings, and you definitely didn't make me cry. You actually made me experience something that I never had before. I have never had another human, just mere feet away, actually say the words, "you're ugly." You obviously thought you were better than me, or at least important enough to voice your loud opinion as if I wasn't even in the room. However, I don't look back on it and get angry at you, I actually feel bad for you.

I feel bad for you because you obviously have never had an important figure in your life to tell you that saying something like that isn't acceptable. No one must have taught you to not only respect women, but really to just respect people in general. I worry that because you didn't learn that respect, you won't go far in life. And that my friend, is a little bit of well-deserved karma.

Lastly, I have to say thank you, and I mean that. Because you, I now know exactly what I don't want in a man. I never, ever want to be with a guy who thinks it's OK to tell a girl that she's ugly, because it's most definitely not. Because of you, my standards for men are now even higher (I didn't think that was possible) and I know exactly what I deserve.

Yours truly,

The girl who looks better without you *hair flip*