Dear Dad,
You have been here since Day 1. You were young and still trying to figure out life. Every time I think you had things figured out, I realize that you are still learning everyday to be an even better father figure for me, if that's even possible! I know now that life was hard and anything but easy. You did everything in your power to be a great dad and a good example for me. Even now that I am 21 and full grown, you still worry endlessly for me and hurt when others hurt me.
You still go out of your way to make sure I have everything I need and that I am on the right path. When I see other families and other children, I like to remind myself how blessed I am. Many children out there go without good fathers. They wish for a father to be by their side and to never leave them. It's even hard to find fathers who actually stick around and try to be the best man in a child's life every single day. You proved all these others wrong. Ever since I was a little baby, you made sure I was taken care of and felt loved. Throughout the years has been anything but easy. I really don't know how you put up with my prepubescent attitude and mood swings, but you did it and that's all I ever ask. I wasn't always the best I could be or act, but you somehow still love me. We still butt heads about the silliest things.
We don't always see eye to eye but I know I wouldn't be able to live without you. You balance me out and make me see the big picture. You keep me on my toes and always want me to keep my eyes on the prize. You taught me that nothing in life is handed to you and you have to bust your butt to get it. Because of you, I appreciate things a lot more. You gave me a sense of purpose and helped me to overcome so much adversity thrown my way by those who didn't want to give me a chance. When I liked the wrong boys, you made sure to push them away for me, even when I couldn't see how dumb I was being. You were my eyes when I was blind and naïve and innocent. You made sure no harm came my way. You taught me how much love God has for me and how much sacrifice Jesus has made for me because of their love for me and for the world. You taught me very valuable morals and instilled values in me that this generation lacks.
Because of you and mom, I have the integrity and respect for others that this world needs more of. You have given me so much and given yourself so little just for your children. I know sometimes I'm selfish and get angry and don't always tell you this, but just know deep down that I appreciate you more than words can say. You are my hero. No one can replace you. I know we don't always get along, but if familes were perfect, they would take their love for granted so maybe it's good we butt heads so much. I love you so much, and I will always be your little girl.
