Friend,

I’m so happy for you being in a relationship with someone you like and cares about you. I really am! I’m glad you found someone to share our life with, someone to love.

But you need to stop choosing your significant others over your friends all the time. Trust me, I understand. I’m in a relationship too, and sometimes all I want to do is spend time with them. It’s all about balance.

Whenever I ask you to hangout, most of the time the answer is “no”, because you’ve got plans with your S.O. Sometimes, you’ll even cancel plans with me to hang out with them. It hurts, but I always let it go. Because I want you to be happy, and you deserve to be happy.

But what about my happiness? I’m tired of biting my tongue all the time to make you happy. I deserve to be happy, too! Friendship isn’t a one-way street, you’ve got to pull your own weight. We’ve been friends for a while, a lot longer than you’ve known your S.O. and way longer than you’ve been dating. I know all of your intimate secrets, all of the people you’ve ever crushed on, and all of your hopes and dreams. We’ve shared together many good times, LOL moments, and a fair share of sad ones, too. We’ve seen each other through ups and downs, highs and lows. We have an incredible friendship!

But I haven’t seen you much in the last few months. You’re busy making memories with your boo. Please make time for me, too. I miss you. It really hurts for you to constantly choose your S.O. over me. It would mean so much to me if we could go out for a couple drinks, and catch up. Tell me about your boo and all the adventures you’ve had, I’m sure you have so much to tell me. I’ve got a lot to tell you! I’d love to know how you’ve been doing and what’s new in your life, because I care about you. I’d love to have you back, friend.

Sincerely,

Don't Forget About Me