An Open Letter To All The Older Brothers Out There | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

An Open Letter To All The Older Brothers Out There

"Sometimes being a big brother is even better than being a super hero." -- Marc Brown

1028
An Open Letter To All The Older Brothers Out There

Dear Older Brother,

I'll never know what it is like to be the older sibling...especially to a sister like me. We both know we have had our fights and arguments, but at the end of the day you're my best friend by birth. There are multiple things that I could thank you for, and that I want to thank you for. However, there are not enough words to get my point across. Here are some of the key ones that stand out to me...

Thank you for paving the way for me. If it wasn't for you I would have been lost since day one. You have always been there to guide me in the right direction. Whether we agreed at first or not, somehow you always knew what was best. Thank you for helping me avoid the mistakes you made growing up and for helping me overcome the mistakes I did make. Also thank you in advance for all the mistakes in the years to come that I know you will help me with.

Thank you for being a role model. Whenever I was asked who my role model was, you were always the first person that came to mind. You have always shown me how to be determined, goal oriented, persevering, and many other characteristics. I have learned from you that I can do anything I put my mind to, mainly because I grew up watching you do the same.

Thank you for your support in everything I do. I know most brothers dread going to dance recitals or competitions, soccer games, pageants, or anything else I have ever been a part of. However, having your support means the world to me. The simple "good luck" texts, or "I'm proud of you" messages really make my day. Little do you know, I often screenshot those and save them for days when I am struggling to believe in myself. I know no matter what I have your support and I wouldn't trade that for anything.

Thank you for being 100 percent honest with me 100 percent of the time. I know I can always come to you with something and you will give me your complete and honest opinion. Whether that is if my outfit looks bad, my makeup is off, or my hair looks like a mess, I know you will tell me. If I need you to proofread an assignment, I know you won't hold back. Oh! And that boy I am interested in, yeah, you see right through him and you have no issue in telling me that. And even if I decided not to listen to you (which we both know happens a lot), and that boy ended up hurting me, thank you for never saying, "I told you so," or, "it's your own fault." Your honesty, no matter how brutal, helped to make me who I am today. I know I can always count on you to be honest with me.

Thank you for being my best friend. I know a lot of brother-sister relationships are not always as close as ours, and how close we are is something I will forever treasure. You're my Cedar Point buddy, my spider-killer at 3 a.m., and sometimes even my therapist. But most importantly you are my best friend. I know I can always turn to you for help or advice no matter what. I can always count on you for a shoulder to cry on, a hug, or laughs.

The list of thank yous could go on and on. So just for a few more... Thank you for all the lessons you’ve taught me. Thank you for always protecting me, and also for letting me fall, but always being there to pick me up. You are the best big brother, and I am so blessed to be your little sister. Thank you for setting a strong example for me to follow, and for rarely letting me down. But most importantly, thank you for being you. I wouldn't want anyone else to be my big brother.

With much love and gratefulness,

Your baby sister



Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

649219
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

544587
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments