An Open Letter To My Day One | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

An Open Letter To My Day One

From the moment I was laid in your arms, we've had an unbreakable bond.

108
An Open Letter To My Day One
Rachel Mathys

Mom,

From the moment I was first laid in your arms, we've had an unbreakable bond. I was the child you hoped and dreamed for, and you were the mom that God hand picked for me. I thank Him everyday for giving me to you.

I was the child lovingly nicknamed "velcro baby" because of my extreme attachment to you. I was not happy being held by anyone, but you. I would cry and cry and cry until I was back in your arms. You switched to a night job just after I was born hoping that would be easier on me, but I still was a terror at night for dad, so you quit that job for me. Oh how sorry I am, but thankful that you did that.

You've always been my best friend and the one I look up to the most. I never went through the typical teenage angst stage of "I hate mom". However rare they were, we sure had our fights. But, they were always short lived because we couldn't ever stay mad at each other long. When I tell people about you, I always say, "My mom is superwoman". You are the sole provider for our family traveling around the world while still managing to be the soccer team mom, church elder and professional chauffeur for four children. I am always shocked with how you can manage your very full plate of responsibilities, but then again, I'm not because you are you. Superwoman.

From a very early age, I was always told, "you look just like your mom". Especially as I grew older and started high school, it was said to me more and more. But, not just that I looked like you, but that I sounded just like you when I talked because we share the same mannerisms and vocabulary. You may have thoughts this bothered me a little bit or that I didn't agree, while actually I loved hearing it. It is such an amazing compliment to hear that I look and sound just like my mom because I want to be just like you when I grow up. And, I say that like I haven't yet. At almost 21 years old I have barely touched the surface of the person I will turn out to be, but all I can hope is that I become more and more like you.

Going away to school six hours away from you was hard for me to do. Even though you greatly encouraged it, I know it was really hard for you to watch your baby girl leave the nest. But, you've been there for me every step of my journey with daily texts or phone calls. Even though its my third year away at school, each goodbye with you never gets easier. I may put on a good front, but the second I am out of your sight the waterworks begin. I can't explain why it happens. Nothing about our relationship changes when I go away from home. In fact, we have become closer than ever. But, each time we say goodbye it is just as hard as the first.

I cannot thank you enough for the opportunities you have given me in life, for all of the solid advice you have given me, for all of the moments you have been my biggest cheerleader, and for all the broken hearts that you have gotten me through. But most of all, for all the unconditional love you have given me. All I can hope for it to be half the mom that you are to my future children and to have the relationships that I have with you with my own daughter.

I love you to the moon and back.

~Your Princess

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

640366
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

534844
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments