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Don't Be A Victim; Learn To Defend Yourself

I am a strong, independent woman who shouldn't have to fear the dark.

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Don't Be A Victim; Learn To Defend Yourself
Tasha Doan

Being a woman can be very dangerous. We experience a fear that was placed on us at a very young age that no man has to constantly think about. We have to never walk alone, are always glancing over our shoulders and should never ever be out after dark. These restrictions are just ridiculous. I am a strong, independent woman who shouldn't have to fear the dark, but our world is cruel and deceitful. No matter what there will always be danger around the corner for a short and very non threatening woman as myself. The crime of rape has happened for so many years. Despite the progress we have had as a society in attempting justice, the danger may never fully disappear.

But I can protect myself and teach my daughters to protect themselves, because we are strong, independent woman who, once we reach legal age, will be armed with a firearm that we are comfortable and highly skilled in using. Because I will not be a victim. Many women are afraid to handle a firearm, afraid of the power. But that same power which many use for negative agendas could save your life. Being able to handle a weapon, that may not even need to be fired, to scare away someone looking to harm you is something I find imperative for all women. Nothing should keep you from living your life, and once I am able to conceal carry legally I will have the power to never be afraid of the dark again.

"Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live." - Dorothy Thompson

In order to live, you must be trained so you are safe and confident with the firearm you wish to carry. Research the many handgun options, find a training center that gives ladies classes and find a holster that is comfortable for you. My father is a firearms instructor and owner of Shooters Ranch. Even though I have been training with firearms since I was a young girl, I took a Ladies class from him last week. It was a blast. Shooting a firearm and being able to progress in one two hour class is such an amazing feeling. Hitting the bullseye is an awesome goal to achieve. Since my father has always wanted me to be safe and not have to worry about my own well being, he trained me to be able to defend myself. I want all women to be able to defend themselves. If you are in my area or want to travel for a great class, please check out shootersranchusa.com. Women can take over the world once they can eliminate fear.

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