College spring breaks are always seen as drunken all-day beach parties by most of society. It has been portrayed by media that this is the only way you should spend your break. In actuality, though, I am in my junior year, and I have never gone to the beach for spring break. In fact, I haven't done much of any partying on my spring break. Instead, I have committed myself to something much more fulfilling.

The past two years I have spent my spring break as a participant, and this year as a leader on our campus's Empowerment Retreat. Note that last year was the first time it was offered, or else I would have gone freshman year, too. This retreat is focused on service in Eastern Kentucky. The area we go to is one of the poorest counties in the state. This trip was my fourth time visiting Auxier, and once again I had an amazing experience.

This was actually one of the most impactful visits thus far. I met one of the strongest, most inspiring women in the world. Connie, also known as "Big Momma," has been through so much from early in life, but that has never taken away an ounce of her positivity. She welcomed my group into her home as though we were old friends. She shared her stories, and with each one there was a lesson she wanted us to learn. Even with all that she has been through and having so little, she is willing to constantly give. She told us that was how she was raised and that was how she raised her children; to always lend a helping hand.

Comparing my spring break to the typical college student is a little odd. My break was all about helping others, connecting with others on a deeper level, and learning to be more self-less. Whereas those who spent a week getting drunk on a beach were practicing characteristics that are much less desirable.

I'm not saying that I am such a martyr of the world and such an amazing person. That's not what I am getting at, at all. I just wonder why I would spend hundreds of dollars to go to a beach and get drunk when I could have an incredible experience in my own backyard. I guess I will never understand, just like other people won't understand my choice. If you have the opportunity though, I highly recommend stepping outside your comfort zone and trying an alternative spring break.