Addressing Life's Why Nots
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Addressing Life's Why Nots

Don’t Allow Yourself To Have “What Ifs”

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Addressing Life's Why Nots
Mike Kirby

Trust me when I say this, I get it. Branching out is nerve-wracking, terrifying even. But here’s the thing: if you aren’t trying new things, you are never changing. You’re never learning, and you’re never taking full advantage of all that life has to offer you. In order to truly experience life in all of its glory, the importance lies in stepping outside of your comfort zone, jumping full-force into whatever pings your interest, laying your heart on the line, and embracing what is before you. I mean, why not?

Why not take that last minute weekend vacation two states away? Why not join a yoga class on the beach once a week (they might even let you bring your dog)? Why not approach the girl sitting across from you in the coffee shop? Why not take the guy from the bar last night up on his offer for dinner this weekend? Why not go to the beach at 3 am, just to watch the sunrise and enjoy the refreshing breeze? Why not apply for that dream job you think you have no chance of getting (anything is possible, anything)? Why not belt your heart out at karaoke night at your local bar on a Wednesday night? Why not rush Greek life, and why not join an intramural soccer team? What is stopping you?

Now, I’m not saying to go jump through flaming hoops or hang from the side of a building (unless that’s your style), but why not endure on a new adventure? As cliché as it may sound, life begins at the end of your comfort zone. Life begins when you take the initiative and start living for what thrills you and keeps you engaged. Life is too short to become complacent in your being. Grow. Broaden your horizons. Expand your mind. Experience the world outside of your shell. I promise, there are more worthwhile activities to embark on than laying in the same bed, at the same time, watching the same shows on Netflix every night.

Not a daredevil? Try a new blend of coffee. Listen to a different genre of music from what you’ve had on your playlist since your freshman year of high school. Better yet, check out your local music scene. Go on a hike at 7 am and greet every person you see along the way. You just might meet your soulmate. Stranger things have happened.

Not happy with your major? Change it. Hate where you live? Move. Or explore parts of the area you have yet to venture to. You never know what you might find. Still unhappy in your three-year relationship? Leave. Or change it. Do not remain the same. Do not continue the same lackluster practices out of habit. Feed your soul and live a life that you will look back and smile on. The world around you is constantly changing, you are not meant to be stagnant within it.

Don’t allow yourself to have “what-ifs,” go and find out for yourself. It’s in your hands to utilize the life you were given, no one else is going to do it for you. But I promise you were born for a whole lot more than impartial small talk over the same topics day in and day out. There is more out there for you, why not go find it?

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