9 Reasons Every Girl Needs Guy Friends
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9 Reasons Every Girl Needs Guy Friends

Honestly, I have more guy friends than girlfriends....

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9 Reasons Every Girl Needs Guy Friends
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When I got to college, I was ready to make new friends and experience all types of people. What I didn't know was that I was about to find out that one of the best types of friends wasn't what I was expecting at all. Guys that stick by your side through thick and thin because they are the brothers I never had.

1. NO Drama!

When you think about gossip and backstabbing, the finger is usually pointed at girls and not boys. Now don’t get me wrong, boys certainly have their problems too, but they are usually straight up with each other. Have a problem, say so!

2. They keep it real.

I can always count on my guy friends to be honest with me about anything from my outfit choices to whether I am making a good decision or not. They will tell me when I’m being crazy or stressing over nothing, even if I might not want to hear it.

3. They are the protective brothers you never had.

I never had brothers growing up, only one younger sister. My guy friends look after me while I’m away at school. Whether that is making sure I’m safe at a party, or ensuring I don't end up in an unsafe situation; they are always there when I need them. I love them for it!

4. They help you destress.

Day-to-day life can get quite stressful, and everyone needs someone they can turn to when they need some time to wind down and be themselves. I can be pretty high strung sometimes and the boys always know when I need a good laugh because they know everyone has their days.

5. There's no judgment.

They accept me for ME. That can be me at my best (with makeup and a nice outfit on) or my worst (right after my labs in my dowdy culinary uniform with no makeup and smelling like onions and a deep fryer) and I know they will accept me no matter what.

6. They keep you updated on random trivia.

Guys and girls naturally have different interests, but that keeps things interesting. They keep you updated on car releases, the trending topics on Reddit, what video game is topping the chart or what the coolest piece of tech is on the market right now.

7. You always have someone to talk to.

When I'm down I always know I can turn to my guy friends if I need to talk or work through a problem. They are great listeners when I need to vent and give great advice when I need it. I know they will tell me what they truly think and not just what I want to hear.

8. They'll keep your playlists fresh.

They introduced me to many different music styles that I had never listened to before I met them. Each one likes something a little different so I am always expanding my music library. They are also great to just turn up the music and jam with while on a car ride.

9. They're down for anything.

Whether that means getting lunch, a trip to the mall or a new adventure they are always down to hang.

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