“You'll appreciate it when you're older." Do you know how many times my mom has told me this? Too many to count. Every time I complain about looking young that is the response I get. I know she's right, I will love looking young when I'm in my 40s. However, looking young is a real struggle in your 20s. Here's what we have to deal with:
1. Everyone thinks your younger sister or brother is the older one.
True story: someone actually thought my younger sister was my mom once. I've really gotten used to this but it still sucks.
2. You ALWAYS get carded.
Every. Single. Time. Since I know I look young, I never even bothered with a fake ID my first couple of years of college because I knew it would never work. If I'm being completely honest, I was nervous when I turned 21 that the bartender would think my real driver's license was a fake.
3. People look at your driver's license for an awkward amount of time.
So no one has actually thought my real driver's license is fake but that doesn't stop them from doing a double take and giving me *that look.* The look that says, “Wow, you don't look that old." And sometimes people will just flat out say that. The best part is this doesn't just happen when you're purchasing alcohol. This has happened to me at the movie theater.
4. People will give you *that look* when they see you drinking alcohol.
You just want to turn around and scream “I'M 21, IT'S LEGAL. STOP JUDGING ME."
5. People are shocked to find out you're in college.
If I had a dollar for every time someone had a shocked expression on their face after I told them I'm a junior in college I could pay off all of my student loan debt. It's funny because when random people ask me how school is going, I pretty much assume they think I'm in high school and the shocked look on their face when I start to talk about my college classes confirms I'm right.
6. For some reason wearing your hair in a ponytail makes you look younger.
I don't understand this one but it's true. Especially if I don't have any makeup on I could honestly pass for a child.
7. Meeting an actual 12-year-old who looks older than you.
We all know one. That random 12-year-old who looks extremely mature for her age and you get angry because life isn't fair.
8. Being handed a kids' menu.
This is my personal favorite. It happens more often than it should. The best part of this is it's your turn to give someone a look. The look that says, "You've got to be kidding me".
Looking young is a real struggle and I don't think everyone realizes it. However, with all the struggles that come with looking young, we still take advantage of it. Have you ever gone to a museum or event where if you're under a certain age you get in for a discounted price? Yeah? Well, that's when I bet you wish you were us. And kids' meals are way cheaper than regular meals so there have definitely been a couple times when I've kept that kids' menu.
So, all in all, it's not the worst thing in the world but it's definitely a struggle.